What happens now

So me and my boyfriend of 8 months just broke up in a very cruel way. but i really want to know something, what happens to the forever's we promised after the break-up?

Well obviously if you two aren't together anymore those promises of forever weren't legit. Pain is probable but suffering optional, so like Amanda said pick yourself up & move on with life, you've at least got the rest of it to live & look forward too! It may take time fully carry on but you'll get through it, just wait & see.

Nobody can promise forever,
and like she said^ you're only 16.
won't be your only broken heart
trust me.

I went through this a couple months ago, me n my ex were together for 17 months. i havent talked to him or seen him since, im not gonna lie sometimes i do still think about him but the forevers and i love yous melted away with the way he made things end.
Love is a complicated thing, it can be the most amazing thing but it can also be the most terrible thing. You just need to accept it sometimes and move on, or if ur bf is not crazy, try talking to him and tell him whats going on in your head

Thank you guy so much for your advive but umm to the above girls^^ yeah im 16 but this the first time i've been in love. i don't throw I love you's around to every guy i see in all actuallity i'v very stingy with my heart therefore this break up is extra hard anymore advise??

Yes, even though you are 16... the love was there... and i am sorry that you are going through a tough time... but yeah those forevers are gone... just keep your head up, and good luck!!

"Thank you guy so much for your advive but umm to the above girls^^ yeah im 16 but this the first time i've been in love. i don't throw I love you's around to every guy i see in all actuallity i'v very stingy with my heart therefore this break up is extra hard anymore advise??"

^ That's good to hear that you're not the type to just say I love you to every guy in that way, I was like that too (that is until I met my bf of 4yrs). I also know how hard your break-up is for you, I nearly went through one myself & my heart was broken. I don't know whether I or anyone else can give you any other advise other than what we have without repeating ourselves. I am still hurt & healing; I'm constantly worried/scared that what he tells me is the truth or not & need to regain my trust in him again. Only time will tell if I will heal, maybe it won't be completely & only enough to restore what the both of us shared before (after all what he did hurt & I will always remember that even though I forgive him). It will take time for you as well, you've got the rest of your life to live & look forward to.

Thank you so much for all of your advice i really really appriciate it...

^^ Hopeless i really hope things get better between you and your bf... me and brian the guy i was talking about have desised to try and work things out but i'm worried because im very set in my ways and i know how i am is going to ruin our relationship any advise on that

I agree with everyone here. Forever means nothing. It is nothing more than a word. Why do you think people get divorices? It is a sad thing too. We all wish that there was a forever. I can't tell you how many times some stupid ex boyfriend has said that to me. It has never happened and I have gotten used to it. But hey, it is a lesson to learn. I learned mine and now I am independent. You are 16. You will find someone else I am sure of it:) Good luck hun.

"i'm worried because im very set in my ways and i know how i am is going to ruin our relationship any advise on that"

^ Lol, don't be worried. I too have high morales & values of & for myself, & am damned proud of it! It's one of the reasons why my bf grew attracted to me because I wasn't like other girls he'd seen or been with. He knew I wasn't the type of girl to sell myself short in any way & because of that I was loyal! I'm guessing that's also why Brian's with you, because of who you are & for the same reasons! Don't be afraid to be who you are & don't change for anybody in that way!

Glad to hear that the two of you are going to work things out together, I was going to ask but I knew that you would be & there'd be no reason to. You two were together for 8 months, that's a long time to spend time with & get to know a person, that means something; whether or not that you guys want to be with one another still or at least would like to remain friends. Good luck to you, hope you never change & that your heart can now heal!

Try to make things right!

I think it's quite sad that many of us don't believe in forever anymore, yes, I agree it's pretty far-fetched but it seems that we expect our relationships to end at some point, as in divorce, cheating, etc.

I dunno, just saying =/

People expect things because they believe it will hurt less, but it hurts the same, maybe worse. Forever is a word, just like love, or happiness is a word. You can't describe an emotion with one simple word, because emotions are impossible to describe.

I had the same experience, I was completely devastated, but I realized the promises were just there because I hung onto them. Let them go and you'll beable to let him go. It does take time, and the pain soothes, just give it time.

Promises of forever go out the window the second that it ends...it hurts, but its reality. i've been promised time and time again, and i know how much it hurts to lose them, but the best thing you can do is take some time to get over it and go out again. you'll be promised forever quite a few times i'm sure...

"They're gone.. forever is a fantasy... nothing lasts forever"

DON'T BELIEVE THAT!, forever may not always last but it's real we don't fall in love to know it's gonna end or that it'll never last. life is long and hard so it's only natural that there will be heart break and despair, sadness. believe the forever you made was real even if you can't share it with that person anymore.

*sighs* I'm sorry that you're having to go through that hun, I know it really hurts :( I was there 2 years ago. As for what happens to all the "forever's" and "I love you's"....They disappear and no longer exist. Once the relationship comes to an end so do all the promises of that sort. I'm afraid all you can do now is to pick yourself, pick up the pieces and try to pull yourself back together and get used to life without him in it, very hard I know but thats the only way. The first time you trust and give your heart and its stomped on hurts like crazy I know and I can't say that time will heal it, after 2 years it still hurts sometimes, but you have to walk past it and put it behind you.