Before.. hes a friend,brother...now,, hes a total stranger...?

Ok ok... this is what happened ... i have a very close friend.. a guy!! at first i hate him during our first day in school he looks so bossy and weird.. thats why i hate him!!! but as time pass by..i realized that hes not that bad... its just hes nature walking like a bossy one but deep inside hes one of the most kind person i have ever met.. we do enjoy each others company.. we go home together and then we actually act like lovers when we are in a public bus or watever.. he hugs me.. he kiss me .. he holds my hand.. he even cares a lot for me... he follows everything i wanted him to do... he tries to stop smoking coz i want him to.. i was happy during that time i thought that there will be a possibility that our friendship will grow.. as more than as it is.. but i was wrong... so sudden im shocked that hes finally changing.. he became cold and everything... i cant talk to him like the way we talk before.. we are not eating together .. we're cold with each other.. it hurts me more and more everytime our eyes met as if like wer strangers. now... i miss him badly... but you know what hurts.. is that someone told me hes courting a girl... now im not surprised why he became cold and so forth... coz hes trying to get away from me... because of his new girl... i hate him!!! why hE do those stuff ..yeah i know i expected too much but why would he let me fall for him that deep... though he knew that he doesnt even love me... now i heard him and hes girl broke-up after 1 month i dunno what happened.. i want to ask if hes ok if hes alright..but i cant..im too scared... too scared to be hurted by him.. i've moved on but i dont think i can be with him as my friend again,, coz im too scared to be with him...
now everytime i saw him along the road or inside our classroom.. we both keep on ignoring each other and i get used to it..as if we do both didnt know each other after all....

He might have grown distant because he felt you were trying to change him. He might have just been trying to use you though. And when he saw how you really felt he might not want to hurt you more, he might have been trying to get somewhere instead of being your friend and lover. But obviously he doesn't want to be with you or he wouldn't be so cold, but you said both of you are being rude and standoffish. So I suggest you talk to him, see what his problem is, if its not you or if he wants your friendship back and you do to, go ahead. But you need to be very careful, it sounds like you have a weakness for him, so don't let yourself get hurt again. Talk to him, see why he's treating you like this, because mimicking his actions will get you nowhere. Most men want you to do the first move, but you have to want to fist. Good luck.

Having friends is a lovely thing.....Try to consider the friendship...Probably, it may help you, forgive him in what he had done. You don't have to ignore each other and loose the camaraderie you have. Ignore the pride, not him....try to talk to him to fix things up, al least you'll not end up with regret! Just move on my dear!!!!!!