Still Missing him

  • LittleMissReality
    16 years ago

    My ex and I have been broken up for 4 months and I still miss him. We finally started talking again via facebook since he's an hr away at college and I'm back home in highschool. So friday night he was back and he was at the Cross Country meet (he used to run so him and all the other alumni went to watch) and I was talking to one of our friends who I haven't saw in a while, and he walks in our circle and starts making really dumb noises, the sounds you make when you stick your tongue out. Well I just stared at him like are you serious and he kept going. So finally I though what ever so I said Hi and he stopped right away, he's like hi.

    So early that morning I was going through a box becuase it was home coming week and I wanted to find something green and gold and I came across this green jersy so I picked it up and it was his that I forgot to give back. So I decided I'll tel him I have it if I see him tonight and I did and he told me i could keep it I don't go tot school there anymore and I told what do I want with it, so he said to give it to hsi brother. And at the football game i was talking to his friend and I told his friend the next time you talk to me when you're drunk I'll remind you. And Danny buts in and goeswhen was he drunk. I was like are you serious. I say I hate him but I still want him back.

    What do I do?/ I want to get over him b/c I know i can't ahev him back

    And then last night this all happened

    So I read an article in Seventeen magazine about getting your ex back and the advice kind of helped. I started talking to him more. Last night we had an hr convo that actually went some where. But now I don't know what to think or how to talk to him. I'm not going to wait around but I want us to get along and maybe something to happen.

    What are some tips that could help with making things better?

  • kla
    16 years ago

    Okay so i had this probelm to we actaully havent been to gether 10 months which is long but heyy w.e and i was going thro clothes and i found his sweatshirt buried in my closet and it still had his smell which made me cry a lil i tlaked to him and we may get back together so i went for it, whioch is what u should do go for it if hes somthin specail and hour isnt to far(:

    Kayla Grace

  • LittleMissReality
    16 years ago

    But I'm scared...

  • The Queen
    16 years ago

    No Offense meant, but i think you should not pursue it anymore. It will never work if its one sided only. If he feels the same towards you, you wont be puzzled like that on what to do. Seriously, if your ex is still interested with you, he would have done somethin by now to get you back or atleast let you know how he feels for you. 4 months is not that long to recover but i think its time to move on.

  • BleedingAngel
    16 years ago

    I broke up with my bf in february and I have missed him ever since.....and when guys showed me any interest, I just blew them off.....All i could think about was my ex and how to get him back!!! then two weeks ago the guy swept me of my feet and I fell inlove instantly and he made me forget all about my ex and I dont think about him anymore....

    Time is my only advice, your heart will mend and some one better will come along and sweep you of your feet

    Good luck

  • LittleMissReality
    16 years ago

    Ok sounds dumb but I actually took advice from a seventeen magazine. It said to still flirt with other guys but still come in contact. I still flirt with other guys and am not centering my life around Danny. I just want to talk and maybe work things out. He's been nice to me all of a sudden!