Really Having a Hard Time... Help!

Well here wats goin on...

there are two guy that have been in my life and lately stuff between me and them has become a lil strained and im tryin my hardest to work it out...

one of them i care for way more than the other and he seems to not care.. but being that ive been in his life four years pretty consistanly.. and now im losing him we dont talk everyday like we used too and im giving him space.. but its that hardest thing to do...

the other guy i also care for but we have also been tryin to work on our problems.. im having more success wit him then the other.. but i think hes using me and i of course dont want that... i dont know wat to do wit either guy...

people tell me to get over both of them but its really hard too and im tryin my best.. i lately havent been hanging out with friend because they are too busy with there boyfriends...

wat should i do... HELP!!!

That is a tough situation. And I have been in something simular myself. Im sorry to say, but I think that who ever told you to forget both of them, is right. Cuz you can't force someone to love you. And you don't want to be in a situation where someone is using you. Yes it will be difficult to forget them, and it will take time. But its probably for the best. As neither option seems to be a good choice.... If your friends are too busy, try something new. Get a new hobby, volunteer somewhere local, or clean out your room. Any of those things will give you a new start and help clear your mind.

^i agree. surround yourself by friends and people who will appreciate you not use you its not healthy. and it is true, you cant force anyone to love you, youll just push them further away.