Rape

  • Wasted Fake Smiles
    16 years ago

    Last night i was raped. when i got home i told my boyfriend, who at first really really didn't believe me and was going to break up with me. but then he could tell i wasn't lying because of how completely devestated i was...and so now we're working it out..

    but i guess my question is...
    will he ever trust me again?
    i know its not my fault..but all my friends are guys and now it's like he wont trust me to ever go to a guys house again....

    im just so..blah...i dont want to lose eric or his trust...help...

  • Katlette
    16 years ago

    ^^ I agree. You were raped! Why would you care more about losing your boyfriends trust????? And why didn't he trust you. You tolf your boyfrined you were raped. He should have been flippin out on the guys who did it!

  • Wasted Fake Smiles
    16 years ago

    He is flipping out on him. he is gonna come here and kick his butt. lol.

    and i know that i was raped. its awful, but i dont want my bf's trust to be gone, because he's very important to me...i need his support...thats all..

    and what really sucks is this guy used to be my boyfriend. and we've hung out a few times since we broke up..but i guess last night he just wouldnt take no for an answer....=/ =[

    its sad to think that i trusted someone and they did this to me...=/

  • Sorinity
    16 years ago

    Wouldnt you be worried about how your bf reacts and afraid to lose him if you had just been raped?? he is one place she can feel safe, i mean after that kind of experience its hard to feel safe

  • Beautiful Chaos
    16 years ago

    Actually the first thing I thought when it happened to me was I need to call the police. If my bf were to dump me because of the disgusting actions of another person, he wouldn't be worth it.

  • Wasted Fake Smiles
    16 years ago

    Im not going to call the police though.

  • Sorinity
    16 years ago

    Why arent you going to call the police??

  • Beautiful Chaos
    16 years ago

    Your choice is your choice, but, doing nothing allows for a greater chance of it happening again, if not to you then someone else.

  • Wasted Fake Smiles
    16 years ago

    I know...
    and because, i just want it over w/. i dont want him to get in trouble sadly. i just want to stop thinking about it and thats that. yeah...

  • Beautiful Chaos
    16 years ago

    You don't want a rapist to get in trouble? Rape is something you never forget about and never should.