does it mean i dont love him?

alright i know i love my boyfriend but in my friends eyes they say if i really loved him then me cheating on him would have never happend? is this true? am i really not in love...because if this isnt love i dunno what would be ...what i feel is the most powerful feeling ihave felt....if i felt anything more stronger i would explode

you know when its love. they dont is all i can say... xx

hmm well if u love someone why would you feel the need to cheat if that person was teh most importnat thing in your life .. youd have no reason nor wnat to turn to another if you were truly happy.jst how i see it.

well...look at it in this sense...if you guys weren't going out, would you still love him? as a person? sure you cheated...but think deep down and ask yourself why. why did you cheat on him if you think you might love him. even married couples still love each other after one's cheated, and some still stay together. you know when your in love, believe me, and if you truely think you are, then you're probably right. but look at him as a whole, a person. not a lover. you'll figure it out soon enough...as for your friends, screw them. ever heard of the quote "my friends don't understand what i see in him, but thats ok, because then they'd love him too".....good luck....im always here if you need anymore help!!

Well just cause u cheated on him doesnt mean u dont love him. sometimes people make mistakes. I mean i am totally in love with my boyfriend but i kissed 2 other guys. I think that if ur having sex with other people then there may be a problem there but if ur just messin around then it just seems like ur not ready to just be with one person even though u may be in love with him
lisa

yeah honey, i cheated on my boyfriend when i was drunk, i know it was the biggest mistake ive ever made and it would have killed me if id have lost him, i love him with all my heart and he knows that! xxxxxxx

thanks guys...i think he knows that it was a mistake and it killed me too...i know i love him but people were saying if i really did i wouldnt have but thanks for the advice guys i apreciate it

I agree with all the answers on here i would be lost with out my b/f..!

ye i know what you mean alot of b!tchy girls said that type of thing to me to, just ignore them because at the end of the day its between you and your boyfriend! xxx