i'm sick of bin fat

  • EpithetPoet
    19 years ago

    i used to go be the same way about my looks and nit pick about everything. one day i just realised that i cant change the way i am. this is me, this is who i am, no one can change that. it's so unbelievable hard but learning to love yourself is one of the best and courageous things you can do(sappy but true)
    you could try a diet if you're that desperate, even though i think that's harder lol

  • Joy
    19 years ago

    listen hun....i was on the verge of anorexia the last month or so...and my friends were really no help...one even said i was fat and needed to lose weight! it really put me over the edge because i wanted to lose weight to gain the attention of one of my guy friends who id like to go out with...and one of my friends had the sense to tell him what was up and heres what he told me....he said "joy you're not fat. even if you were six feet wide you wouldn't be fat...i love you for who you are on the inside, not the outside. you're not even fat anyways" so see...if people can't accept you for who you are inside and out, then they're just a bunch of assholes...feel better...and im always here if you need to talk....take care.

  • Jacki
    19 years ago

    If you're sick of being fat do something about it instead talking about it.

    Otherwise you're only going to get bigger.....

  • xRachelx
    19 years ago

    Yeah but she aint fat in the first place. She weighs a perfectly ordinary amount for a girl that tall. And if you really want help, talk to a councillor instead of asking equally confused people on this site! Sorry I can think of a better word than confused to try and say what I mean but when I do Ill change it. :P

  • wings.in.flight.
    19 years ago

    i seriously agree with Jacki, if u dont like the way u look do something about it stop complaining, im sure if u excercised once a day or something like that ud loose it, it doesnt happen overnight

  • Incognito
    19 years ago

    dont like it-lose it

  • Heathergirl
    19 years ago

    i think you should be more happy about ur self....

  • Nici
    19 years ago

    If your that bothered about your weight then try doing what other people have suggested on this board i.e. diet, exercise.

    This may sound harsh to other people but think of it this way you arn't exactly obese and there are many people out there who are. Be glad your weight does not pose a threat on your health and challenge it while you can.

    Nici

  • Jessy
    19 years ago

    wth but n-e ways i used to be extremely huge and i lost a tone of weight from depressiona nd runnin know i am in track and an run 3 miles in 12 minuts and that is the school recorf just keep trying and it's not right peopl make fun of poeple for that sh!t

  • Incognito
    19 years ago

    seriously dont worry bout what other ppl think, and dont get to thinking ur not beautiful cos i kno u r, u can tell beautiful ppl cos they have a good heart, so dont worry just try and be happy as u r.

  • clevername
    19 years ago

    dont ever judge ur self bi how u look! dont ever judge urself at all! theres already way to many people jduging everyone here! looks meen to little. but altho i say thsi i no how u feel. ull like look in the mirror and jst scream at urself. most of the time tho if ive ever done that its jsut bc i hate my reflection i hate that there such hting as looks... i wish it was all jsut mnid... anyway its not... so... u no wut.... it doesnt matter... remeber not ever to judge urself apon looks! good luk!

  • wings.in.flight.
    19 years ago

    omg u just said "if i eat i have to be punished" then u said "the mirror constantly screams and ridicules me" thennn u said "i dont have an eating problem"...... er sorry but tht seriously sounds like u have an eating disorder.... , sorry but u need help

  • VSambulance
    19 years ago

    franly, i dont't agree with you saying that you're fat...and if you honestly think you are then as the other people said...do something about it. don't sulk around the house and eat....becuase that won't really help.
    actually that will just make you fatter.....but you're not though

  • ☼totalDARKNESS☼
    19 years ago

    omg!! i have bulimia, and anorexia. i am 5'4", and i weigh 78LBS. i do understand that i have a verry low BMI, and that it is very dangerous to weigh as lil' as i do, but even though i may not weigh much, i look like i weigh alot, and looking fat and being ugly is not an easy thing. but right now i am going to Boston Medical School and one of the things i specialize in is mental health and how dangerous it is. it is not healthy to be as thin as you are hunn. you could end up like me, going to the doctors 6 times a week, going to the hospital 3 times a week (and that is a mininum, cause sometimes im in the hospital for up to 3 months) and i get my blood taken every other day, and the only things i can eat are Ramen Noodles and Half a package of oatmeal(and when i eat those i make my self throwup after wards). the only other things i can keep down is protein shakes. everything else i can eat, but i will throw it up because all the volintary vomiting i do gets rid of alot of Potassium, and to make up for the lsot Potassium, my stomache produces an acid, and that acid breaks up my food so fast that no matter how hard i try to keep it down, it comes up. I am very unhealthy but this is how i look at it, "i am loosing weight very quickly living like this, but i am dying just as quickly too, but i would rather keep loosing weight and end up DYING THIN, than living the way i look."
    Hunn, you seem like an awesome kid, and i would really lke to get to know you a little bit more.

    if this makes you want to talk to me more, i can help you loose weight without becoming like me. casue the weird thing is, i know how to make other people healthy and keep them that way, i jsut dont know how to keep MYSELF healthy.

    but please E-mail me, i would love to talk waith you.
    my email adress is :sexymeg_yankees122@hotmail.com

    luv always,
    meg

  • clevername
    19 years ago

    its discusting that we humans are so shalow and so judgemental god i hate it all! u no wut just fuk em all look in the mirror and realize ur fukin beuatitful! then go on and realize there is so much than looks anyway!

  • ☼totalDARKNESS☼
    19 years ago

    that is so true ashley

  • katie!
    19 years ago

    Er I way 16 stone. I think I have a bit of an issue

  • katie!
    19 years ago

    I'm not :( I hate bein fat

  • Essence of Blight
    19 years ago

    Weird I weigh 235 pounds! I still look good though dunno why lol I've been watching my sugar intake for a while. I'm gaining height and muscle mass while i lose weight!