EpithetPoet
19 years ago
i used to go be the same way about my looks and nit pick about everything. one day i just realised that i cant change the way i am. this is me, this is who i am, no one can change that. it's so unbelievable hard but learning to love yourself is one of the best and courageous things you can do(sappy but true) |
Joy
19 years ago
listen hun....i was on the verge of anorexia the last month or so...and my friends were really no help...one even said i was fat and needed to lose weight! it really put me over the edge because i wanted to lose weight to gain the attention of one of my guy friends who id like to go out with...and one of my friends had the sense to tell him what was up and heres what he told me....he said "joy you're not fat. even if you were six feet wide you wouldn't be fat...i love you for who you are on the inside, not the outside. you're not even fat anyways" so see...if people can't accept you for who you are inside and out, then they're just a bunch of assholes...feel better...and im always here if you need to talk....take care. |
xRachelx
19 years ago
Yeah but she aint fat in the first place. She weighs a perfectly ordinary amount for a girl that tall. And if you really want help, talk to a councillor instead of asking equally confused people on this site! Sorry I can think of a better word than confused to try and say what I mean but when I do Ill change it. :P |
wings.in.flight.
19 years ago
i seriously agree with Jacki, if u dont like the way u look do something about it stop complaining, im sure if u excercised once a day or something like that ud loose it, it doesnt happen overnight |
Heathergirl
19 years ago
i think you should be more happy about ur self.... |
Nici
19 years ago
If your that bothered about your weight then try doing what other people have suggested on this board i.e. diet, exercise. |
clevername
19 years ago
dont ever judge ur self bi how u look! dont ever judge urself at all! theres already way to many people jduging everyone here! looks meen to little. but altho i say thsi i no how u feel. ull like look in the mirror and jst scream at urself. most of the time tho if ive ever done that its jsut bc i hate my reflection i hate that there such hting as looks... i wish it was all jsut mnid... anyway its not... so... u no wut.... it doesnt matter... remeber not ever to judge urself apon looks! good luk! |
wings.in.flight.
19 years ago
omg u just said "if i eat i have to be punished" then u said "the mirror constantly screams and ridicules me" thennn u said "i dont have an eating problem"...... er sorry but tht seriously sounds like u have an eating disorder.... , sorry but u need help |
VSambulance
19 years ago
franly, i dont't agree with you saying that you're fat...and if you honestly think you are then as the other people said...do something about it. don't sulk around the house and eat....becuase that won't really help. |
☼totalDARKNESS☼
19 years ago
omg!! i have bulimia, and anorexia. i am 5'4", and i weigh 78LBS. i do understand that i have a verry low BMI, and that it is very dangerous to weigh as lil' as i do, but even though i may not weigh much, i look like i weigh alot, and looking fat and being ugly is not an easy thing. but right now i am going to Boston Medical School and one of the things i specialize in is mental health and how dangerous it is. it is not healthy to be as thin as you are hunn. you could end up like me, going to the doctors 6 times a week, going to the hospital 3 times a week (and that is a mininum, cause sometimes im in the hospital for up to 3 months) and i get my blood taken every other day, and the only things i can eat are Ramen Noodles and Half a package of oatmeal(and when i eat those i make my self throwup after wards). the only other things i can keep down is protein shakes. everything else i can eat, but i will throw it up because all the volintary vomiting i do gets rid of alot of Potassium, and to make up for the lsot Potassium, my stomache produces an acid, and that acid breaks up my food so fast that no matter how hard i try to keep it down, it comes up. I am very unhealthy but this is how i look at it, "i am loosing weight very quickly living like this, but i am dying just as quickly too, but i would rather keep loosing weight and end up DYING THIN, than living the way i look." |
clevername
19 years ago
its discusting that we humans are so shalow and so judgemental god i hate it all! u no wut just fuk em all look in the mirror and realize ur fukin beuatitful! then go on and realize there is so much than looks anyway! |
☼totalDARKNESS☼
19 years ago
that is so true ashley |
Essence of Blight
19 years ago
Weird I weigh 235 pounds! I still look good though dunno why lol I've been watching my sugar intake for a while. I'm gaining height and muscle mass while i lose weight! |