My friends mom has cancer

My friends mom has cancer and she's going to die soon because she basically has every type of cancer possible and i fear for her...me and my friend both had problems with cutting and suicidal thoughts and we havent cut in well almost half a year and im afraid of what will happen if/when her mom dies...im going to b there for her and all but just what should i do? i just dont want anything to happen to my best friend...

Listen to everything she says. even if it seems like nothing. i had a good friend commit suicide and he left me hints that i didnt understand until after he was gone. i didnt think anything of it. so the best advice i can give is listen to her. have her come to your house for awhile if anything does happen to her mom. just get her out of the house for awhile and just be there. thats all you can do really. hope all turns out ok. if you need/want to talk pm me

Thank you...

Anytime. i hope i was atleast of some help..

Awww sweetie Im sorry. I can't say I know how you feel but my boyfriend does understand how you feel.
His mum had cancer too luckily they caught it before it was too late. Hun all you can do for your friend is be there for her an support her through EVERYTHING :) help her stand up when she falls and just support her :)
xxxxx And most of all listen to her...Im sure you aready do that though :)
xxxxx Mucho love
xxx

Thank u...im just worried because her dog just died (and she really loved her dog), her mom has cancer and is going to die soon (no matter what) and her and i use to cut and we havent in months and im just affraid that she'll start again...i love her (only as a friend) so much and i don't want her to go down that path again...but thanks im trying my best to be as supportive as i can!

Spend as much time with her as possible. you need to do your best to keep her mind occupied at such a hard time. my mom had a really long battle with cancer and the docter said she was going 2 die because she really was not doing well due to her also having chrones disease, an unsuccessful spinal fusion and many other operations that only made things worse and just so you know, she lived!!!! i also use 2 cut and pretty badly, but having people who showed how much they cared about me around me really helped. don't talk about it unless she wants 2 talk about it and don't act any different around her because thats where so many people go wrong is when they start acting weird. i really do wish you the best, your friend is really lucky 2 have someone so loving and caring who is there for her. take care darling, x

Thank you for all your support her mom went to have kemo(sp) yesterday and im going to find out how it went if your curious ill keep you posted on how her mom and her are doing...i really apprechate all the support...

Chemo is a tough part of cancer, especially for a woman since she loses her hair. My uncle has been fighing for along time now and the only thing we can do is be supportive and hope that all works out. Best of luck

Oh you don't have to thank me, i think that it is a beautiful thing that you are doing for your friend and its awesome 2 see how much you care for her. please do let me know how it goes, i would really appreciate that. i know how painful it is 2 have your mother go through that my best friend Jessy lost her mother due to breast cancer when she was 9 however my moms recovery story has been a big inspiration 2 her. but like i said just keep being there for your friend, you are an amazing person and have a truly beautiful soul, always remember that its not our circumstances that make us who we are its our spirits!!! and like i said you have a truly beautiful soul. if you ever want someone to just vent to about it then i am always here so just pm me anytime, take care angel.

How is she doing?

Shes doing pretty well...sorry i havent been on in a while just been sooo buisey lately but shes doing pretty well...its looking towards the better for her now and it looks like she might have more time to live so thats good

Ah i am so so glad to hear that!!!! i know how hard that time is when you think the person is not going to make it, i am sure your friend is so grateful for having such an amazing friend there to support her

She is doing very well and has actually been feeling pretty well also...

Thats' good to hear, hope everything goes well.

Avii;-

Oh my gosh girl, that is such great news, i am so so happy to hear that!!! well dont on hanging in there and staying so strong and supportive for your friend.

I'm not sure if someone already said this to you, i didn't read what everyone said. Make sure she knows that you're there for her every step of the way. Take her out to get things off her mind

Shes doing extremly bad,,she has stopped kemo and is now depleating very rapidly they say that she might have a couple months in her left if that...they've already got the funeral plans and casket picked out...she seems (my friend) to be doing okay and taking it well but i just hope that when the time comes that she'll be okay...