I never met my father!!

Okay i never met my dad...but something inside of me does..i just feel incomplete..i have an address to write him or call him but I'm scared he will reject me...my mom contacted him before and he changed his number. I don't know if its a good idea to go out and try to contact him for the fear of getting hurt. But the way i look at it is that if i don't try i will never know. It's just harder to do then to say..you understand??? i just need dome advice..plz someone help

I think you should write to him...what do you have to lose? if he rejects you, he is still out of your life. but if you try and he contacts you back, then you've got a new relationship in the making..i say try it...

I agree also, just go for it...if you don't do it you'll never know, then you'll just keep wondering about it until you do something.

If you really want to, go for it. just dont get super high hopes. he hasnt been there for how many years??you cant expect him to go into dad mode right away if he does at all

My daughter will have a very close dilemma to yours someday i think, she is two at the moment, and has met her father a few times, but contrary to what he says i believe that her father will walk out at some point and not look back. In my opinion if its something you want to do, then do it, contact him. Like has been said, just don't get your hopes up. If you don't do this you will wonder for the rest of your life all the what ifs. Keep in mind that he hasn't made the effort to get in touch with you so don't expect things to jump to daddy and his child in a heartbeat. YOu may find a father in him, or a friend, or nothing at all. so just be open to all possibilities

Consider all posibilities, prepare yourself and just do it. I would go visit him if he was near so that I could get over with it all, but at the same time if you will do that try not to make him look bad in front of whoever his life is now, he might not want anyone to know or maybe he prefers to tell the people in his life himself.

I agree with everyone who has said not to be disappointed if he rejects you, because it's always possible. Really, you won't have anything to lose if he's never been there before. I say call him/write him. Take a chance. :]

Good luck.

Heya,
I reackon you should completely go for it :) as many people have said in this thread that is he rejects you it doesn't matter because you are exactly losing anything. Although you may be upset :/ sorry about that.
Write to him or call him :) As someone said above that there could be a new relationship in the making :)
xxx Good luckk :D
xxxxx
Mucho Love
Roxy xxxx

He is your dad and everyone deserves to have a mother and a father in their lives. i haven't had a father in my life since i was 3 years old so in a way i guess i understand but if you have the chance then i say go for it because or else you are going to sit for the wrest of your life saying what if and if only!!! what have you got to lose? you can only gain from this.

i really wish you all the best and hope that it works out for you!!!! take care