Does love really exist?

  • Miss understood
    16 years ago

    Before my boyfriend and i got together i was a person that had an out siders perspective on everything. I was not the person to fall in love, and i guess its good because maybe i was saving it for the right guy.

    I met someone and it was perfect for the first few months. There was something that was different about him, first guy i let close to me. Then things started to go down hill, maybe because he was my first love and i didn't know how it was supposed to go.
    I started feeling more unhappy than happy. So we broke up. About a month later we got back together, i couldn't be with anyone else and everyone said that we were meant to be. I feel like I'm fighting for something that isn't right because it hurts too much to realize the truth, i love him a lot.

    No one knows that we go through rough matches because to them its perfect.
    Are they all like this?
    Do you have to fight this much for love?
    Or am i really fighting for something thats worth it?

  • jenny V
    16 years ago

    I know how you feel. i never been in love and when i meet anthony my whole world change, we were one of a kind and everybody hated us for loving each other so much, with a passion but then he had to go and cheated on me. So i forgave him because i loved him and we forgave each other more him but also me. Well, it was never the same. I love him but also its not supposed to be too much pain, i cry to much for him and i feel like he doesnt care but anyways, i just let it go sometimes love is not enough. and sometimes it has to be you to walk away in order for you to be happy because love doesnt only happen once.

  • Jaime
    16 years ago

    Things change. You have to do what makes you happy- and if fighting for this doesn't seem worth it to you, then it's not. Don't worry about what everyone says, and don't feel bad about anything. You can't change the way you feel. If you're really not happy, leave now. It will only get harder as time goes on, and you'll only get more miserable.

  • Michael D Nalley
    16 years ago

    I believe relationships exist and it takes two to carry them

    If loves where like oceans we could just float on them
    We must return love freely as the vapor that rises above
    Anyway it works good on paper

  • Sorinity
    16 years ago

    Maybe youve heard it said
    "the best things in life are worth fighting for"
    well love is the best thing in the world to fight for. but only if its someone who understands you and makes you feel happy and safe. i know im not perfect and so does my fiancee and the same goes for him but dispite that we still love eachother with everything we have and yea we hit rough patches but when the good out weighs the bad, does it really matter??
    so to answer your question, i believe only a good love is worth fighting for. now you just have to figure out how good the love is. only you can do that part.

  • Sorinity
    16 years ago

    Sorry double post

  • Elizabeth
    16 years ago

    Amanda, you took the words right out of my mouth! :)

    Love, for me, exists because I feel it; receive & give it, every day, no matter what form it may be; love for myself that will never dwindle, love for my family which is unconditional, love for my friends who are always there for me, or love for this man who holds me close to him & never wants to let go!

    Love is always worth fighting for! I've had to fight for it and I don't regret a single moment of it! The pain from love is worth it & is proof that it exists! It's better to have loved & lost than to have never loved at all! At least it's something rather than nothing!

  • BornAgainWriter
    16 years ago

    If you're even questioning love, you haven't been in love yet; true love.