How to get over him?

  • Angel
    16 years ago

    I am in love with a guy since a year now. We were childhood friends and got in touch again after 10 years.when I was going through tough times...can say my first love!
    But now he is avoiding me since 5 months.. I lately came to know that he is kinda fickle minded... but am not sure....
    when I asked him if he was trying to avoid me?
    He lost his temper and said.. forget me as you forgot your ex...
    Finally when I asked "Do you want me or no"?
    he asked " Are you on sale?"

    I am completly broken... that was too damn rude.. he dint even apologize me... its been 5 days.... :( Don't know what to do... :(

  • Roxy
    16 years ago

    Okay yes saying that is very rude actually -.- it annoys me.
    Like the post above me says give him some space and if that doesn't work then confront him with the situation and tell him that it really hurt you
    xxxxx

  • Angel
    16 years ago

    Thank you guys for your time and views...

  • Nicole the Fairy
    16 years ago

    In my opinion, i think being honest is always the best way to go! :)

    As above ^ rude. and also time :)

    xx

  • Nee
    16 years ago

    Give him some time for what???
    he's been rude and she's being nice again, I don't think you should wait, just go and ask him because day by day you'll be heartbroken even more, so, end it or continue being together!

    And if he ever said you can't be together, go to your friends, cry to them and make them hug you, caress you with their love, my 2 friends made me feel a complete change between being heartbroken & a fun-to-be-around person =]
    Always remember that friends are the ones left for you!
    and good luck xx

  • Angel
    16 years ago

    Nocole.. thanks buddy...

    Nema... feeling much better now... thank u so much for the kind words... u r rite I shud move on.. coz after a week wen i took intiative... he said we cant be together...

  • Shellaine shelli
    16 years ago

    That was a totally uncalled for thing to say, i hate when guys think that they can treat and talk to a girl how they want and then when it suits them they come running back as if nothing ever happened.

    you know no one deserves your tears and the person who does will never make you cry!!! i mean he hurt you, confront him about that and always remember that guys will come and go but your true friends are the ones who are there for you forever!!!

    i hope it all gets better for you and what ever happens i wish you the best of luck, xXx

  • Angel
    16 years ago

    Thank u gal for your reply....

  • AngelicDecadence
    16 years ago

    Yeah, they're all really right. my ex-bff/bf said he hated me a couple of months ago cuz i wanted to break up cuz it was aqward and i didn't like him like that.... we haven't talked since. I'm really sad about it but think about it, why should you care for him if he doesn't feel the same way? Its pointless, and will only hurt you later. You should find someone better who wont hurt you like that, its wrong, and if he really cared, he wouldn't have hurt you in the first place, and even if he hurt you and didn't mean to, he'd figure out his mistake and apologize. but don't wait forever for someone who isn't coming. Even if you want to, sorry girl, thats sometimes how it works :(