Hasnt Moved on..

  • mikxRawrr
    16 years ago

    My ex and i dated for about 7 months, and ended our relationship during the summer. I realized i wasn't being treated the way a girlfriend really should. I was to inlove with someone loving me for once to realize.

    During the summer after we broke up, i went off and did things like go to camp and just hanging out with friends. About a month later, i met this guy at a summer camp, and after talking for many many weeks.. we started dating. For me who thought i was a wreck, finally moved on.

    But things were different with him. I apologized for dumping him, and yes i did feel bad, but it was something i just had to do. I knew our relationship wasn't healthy at all. He kept calling me 100 times a day, texting me a billion times a day. I told him that we already talked about it, and its not going to get better.

    Four months later, he still hasn't moved on. Hes obsessed with me, and its starting to freak me out. Hes so determinded to give my parents letters, send messages to my sister over facebook telling her that "hes going to bring me back to what i used to be." Which really, i have no idea who i was back then, cause i'm still growing up and realizing what life is semi more about. Hes made a video about his friends, and at the end he had my picture and it said "RIP, Someday you'll get it..", which has also creeped me out very much.

    My current boyfriend is worried as well, because my ex is stressing me out. Hes not moving on, i mean i know its hard, but its really taking it WAY to far.

    I really don't know what to do other than ignore his comments, ignore everything hes trying to do. What can i do to not pay attention to him? Any ideas? please just help me with this

  • Cassie Cain
    16 years ago

    If you feel threatened in anyway call the cops and get them in volved. ive been through this and im telling you it doesnt end good.

  • Cassie Cain
    16 years ago

    If you feel threatened in anyway call the cops and get them in volved. ive been through this and im telling you it doesnt end good.

  • mikxRawrr
    16 years ago

    My parents are invloved with all of this, and they think he will just get over it. But obviously he hasnt. Like i mean, i thought he would just kind of hate me for dumping him. But he just because obsessed and determind to tell everyone the "truth" and trash talk about me, ect. Its been so long, and when he figured out that i was dating someone else, he started calling me a desperate slut (sorry for the language). He also thinks i'm just dating this guy because he shows me affection. Which i'm not just dating him because of that. Yes, over the summer we had something going on during the summer, but he lives so far away from me, and actually i know more about this guy, than i did my ex.

    But now hes being a hypocrite and saying "yeah, i can't believe your friends with this person, i would never be friends with them" and now my ex is, AND PLUS got him to ignore me completely. This all is just messed up.