Rozzy
19 years ago
ok hello people and how r u?oh an dby the way what do you think your doing?burning yourselves,cutting,starving!yeah i know i used to cut myself too and i'm still recovering but a friend pointed out to me something i surprisingly really thought about.one night i wanted to kill myself but my best friend talked me out of it..the next day she convinced me to tell one of our guy friends.i told him and he was speechless.that night we talked on the phone and we kinda joked about what my best friend stopped me from doing...then it wasnt a joke.he told me that he thought anyone who wanted to die and doing it by there choice...was selfish.think about it i'm serious.think about this:you commit suicide, your parents how do you think they would cope?comeon just put yourselves in ther shoes for a min and imagine yourself losing that piece of you imagine seeing the scars on there bodies.just imagine how they'd react.now imagine this:your dead.your siblings younger or older.fucked up in the head cuz a piece of them is dead too.put yourselves in their shoes and imagine the thoughts,feelings going through them at once.you cannot imagine how they would be i;m dead serious there would be no words to express anything going through them.now think about his:your hurting yourself dying to die.they're millions of people who would do anything to be in your shoes.for example the tsunami. think of how much they've lost and cant get back.broken families broken lifes...and you thought your soul was broken?just think about what your doing.i'm not judging i've been through it too and all of a sudden i realize this.....what do you think? |
Incognito
19 years ago
yeah maybe it is selfish but you are either gonna keep hurting yourself or hurt someone else. The choice is yours. And suicidal people do tend to think long and hard about who their death will affect, its not just like, 'ooh i think im gonna die today cos ive been sad for a long time, goodbye'. This is just my opinion and i have lost family thru suicide so i kno wot its like. |
Ironic Allure
19 years ago
I think you should learn to use the spacebar more often when you type. |
Ironic Allure
19 years ago
What makes you think I care about anything you have to say about me? |
Rozzy
19 years ago
well maybe they could put themselves in your shoes if they knew what they were trying to feel.i guess parents want to help do you really accually think they'd like knowing they failed?knowing all along their child has been suffering?hm i guess not huh?i mean god what parent would not want there child not to suffer?see were i'm getting at?i dont think so. |
Manda
19 years ago
it is sort of selfish from both perspectives isn't it? i mean the parents are selfish for not caring or noticing and the person is selfish for not caring about who they hurt and if the person does think about who they hurt and they don't care it is becuase their life is so bad there is nothing to care about anymore. why would you want to care about anything that makes your life hell...... i wouldn't. i'm not saying i support people who want to commit suicide becuase i really don't like the idea of suicide but everyone is being selfish somehow aren't they? |
♥x__Pwincess danii//
19 years ago
oh my god thankyou so much for sayign that i have been trying to let that out for ages but no one seems to listen i agree COMPLETELY |
Bret Higgins
19 years ago
Sorry 'Cog, it's totally selfish. |
clevername
19 years ago
maybe this is selfish to cut and to try n kill urself... it is... i addmit it..me myself i cut... i cant stop i jsut cant...ive thought of killing myself but thos thoughts uve sed hav come into my head about ho w depressed i wood make everyone around me... which stops me everytime.... so if your depressed.... just dont kill urself for other ppls sake... this is also y i wish i didnt no anyone n that no one cared for me... so that icood kill myself... but i guess ppl do care.... so on i go..... |
clevername
19 years ago
wait his jsut popped in my head... everyone says that death is better rite? so y does everyone get so sad wen soemoen dies... i mean its kinda not selfish bc that sounds mean but ill say it there selfish for cryign for you bc now ur happy!..i mena im not telling u not to cry if someone dies... not at all... imean im ballign wen that stuff happens... but its kinda selfish in my head u shoodnt b sad at all bc that depressed perosn who kilel themselves isnt suffereing anymore |
Selfrejected
19 years ago
death is the ultimate victory...once you die you dont have to put up with the suffering of this world...and if thos people that care for you whine about you dieing there being selfish for doing so if someone wants to pass on the will...live with it everyone dies one day there just saving themselves the shitty road a head of themselves...ive had 3 friend commit suicide im not whinning i knew they werent happy...sure im a little messed up but ill live...i think... |
Bret Higgins
19 years ago
Death is the ultimate defeat. The people who drive you to death have won. Once you die that's it, no way back. Time for the next level if it's there (Suicide is murder, which means the road to hell... and you think THIS road you're on now is shitty?). |
clevername
19 years ago
heyy sryy to liek change the subject.. bt how to u start a discussion????????? |