WOW .. damn im such a loser..

Definitley not a loser shes the one thats a jerk .If u want to believe it or not the same thing the exact same thing
3 years of my life wasted to try to be her friend and she threw it away for a "boyfriend"

there is plenty of fish in the sea!! there is a girl just as good and even beetter than the one you were after!! your not a loser!! just dont let her be on your mind all the time...and its her loss..you seem like a nice guy!!

A Loser? No way! You really shouldn't think that. Personally I think it was really awesome the way you handled her. You were there for her when she needed you. You were a friend. And to me thats much more important than a $300 gift. You went about it in the right way. You just didn't find the right person to appreciate it. Don't let this discourage you from being a nice guy. One day you'll find someone who really appreciates it. Goodluck!

Email me if you need someone to talk to. I'm always available browneyedrn4@hotmail.com

-BJ

pfft. i dont think that you're a loser at all. i think she's the loser through all that. she's got a lot of growing up to do and one day she'll realise that objects are nothing compared to trust compassion and love. she's just too young and immature to realise that concept right now. forget about her mate, not worth your time.

You can't let yourself believe it has anything to do with the way you are. If someone you have cared for and been a shoulder to cry on leaves you for a guy that buys them expensive things then they are deffinately the ones with the problems. You sound like a really sweet guy. Being able to be a friend to someone you love is a good quality you have. It proves you care about that person so much that your willing to wait and you want them to be happy. Don't doubt yourself. Someday your kindness will be well worth it. Goodluck!

I'm always here to help..
-BJ

Sounds like your happy

Ronald, I'm glad to see your feeling a little better. It'll probably take some time to move on. But you'll get through it. Forgetting about someone you love is really tough. There will probably be times when you want to call her up and beg her to love you back but you've got to stay strong. Once you get past feeling bad and missing her things will get easier. I've been there more than once..trust me. : ) I hope things work out for you..Best Wishes To You

-BJ

Don't worry she'll come crawling back.

Glad to see your realizing shes not worth it! Your on the right track : ) All you needed was a little advice. Sounds like you've come back to your senses. Guess my work heres done! : ) Take Care..

-BJ

I'm glad I could help you. I think its awesome of you to wish her happiness even after what shes put you through. You must really be in love. I know how you feel. I guess I can kind of relate myself to you...I had plenty of trouble getting my first love off my mind. It took me almost a year to realise "we" weren't going to be. Its been 3 years now and I still think of him occassionly. Its deffinately tough. I'm sure you will move on quicker than you think. I've learned not to give up. Because getting your heart broken makes finding "the one" so special. And if you need someone to talk to..I'm here : ) Take care of yourself

-BJ

I Agree

hmmmmm...... welll..... the only reason you're a "loser" is for sayin that you are 1 your not~~~~~~~

Your not a loser for falling in love...I think you know that now..

-BJ