Baby mama

  • Forever Broken
    16 years ago

    I'm 17 years old and I'm in love. My fiance (19) and I have been dating for 2 1/2 years. I had a pregnancy scare not too long ago. yesterday he told me he kinda wished I was pregnant and I told him i was kind of looking forward to having the baby after I got used to the idea. Then he asked a hard question. He asked if I wanted to try for a baby. I'm about to finish up my last year of high school and he's finishing college but we both still live with our parents. I'm not sure what I should do. I really do want kids but I'm nervous. What should I do? Opinions welcome

  • Beautiful Chaos
    16 years ago

    Finish school and get your life together before you bring kids into this world, don't be selfish.

  • Wasted Fake Smiles
    16 years ago

    Wait until you've got your lives together! you're so young..wait until you're old enough and have enough money to care for the baby yourselves. its not fair if you do it now..

  • Elizabeth
    16 years ago

    Wait until YOU finish school & college yourself (if you plan to go)! Wait till you both have steady jobs! Wait till both of you can provide for the child! Last but not least wait till you're older!

  • Viola
    16 years ago

    Having a baby might sound like a good idea when you just throw it out there but when you really think about it carefully and deeply you realise that you are far too young to have one. Do you even have a job? 'Cause if not that should really answer your baby question.