Psycho ex-girlfriend

  • Caity
    16 years ago

    So my boyfriend that I was looking for a house with, had changed jobs ect to move an hour from home, dumped me out of no where. I was assaulted a week later, he slept with me the next day... flirted the whole next week and the next thing you know, im the psycho ex girlfriend.
    Im emotional over the assault and he wants to "be there", but i cant get emotional. I dont understand it... so last night I was at my little brothers 18th and my ex threw me in the pool, we then (with others) played bball in the pool, he had the ball, i jumped on him to get it and he tells me to get off and leave him alone, that it was inappropriate.
    Apparently he "loves me but cant be with me, wants to hold me but wont coz of feelings and getting involved" I apparently "make him depressed" and im "not the one anymore".
    Strangly enough, a month before all this happened, he changed his meds...
    And hes started sleeping around again (after he promised we wouldnt for a fortnight...)

    I dont know how to get over this, it hurts so much
    All I want it revenge... someone give me some advice???

  • hehasmyheart
    16 years ago

    He's playing games w u I know it hurts but I would leave him alone he's not worth ur time just sweat it off a friend of mine told me just ignore him and if he wants u back just play hard to get and be like no u did me wrong guys can be selfish and just break up for the attention when guys are like that they are not worth ur breath or time as for revenge its a battle that's not worth it take it from me just let it go move on w a smile!!

  • Kayla
    16 years ago

    You're just in the tangled mess. There's a simple thing you can do about it. Cut him loose. Completely. Apparently he doesn't want you in his life anymore, so why should you allow him to take part in yours? If I were you I would seriously just cut off contact with him. If you just keep going on, talking, you'll want to remain close... still feel all those things for him. The best thing for you is to shut him out completely and finally let your mind rest. Try to find someone else. There are plenty of other fish in the sea, doll. Next time don't let the boy play games with you.

  • Sorinity
    16 years ago

    I agree with the above 2 posts, he's obviously nothing special just cut all ties with him. And as for revenge, not much you can do besides the petty rumors drama. I love the quote "I don't get revenge, Karma is a bigger B!tch than I could ever be."
    Just keep your head up and mouth shut when it comes to him. Don't give him anything to talk about.

  • Caity
    16 years ago

    Thanks everyone, im trying the ignoring him thing, its just impossible to get him out of my thoughts, as hard as i try it just doesnt work.
    im not going for revenge because as much fun as it is thinking of nasty things to do... thats as far as it goes... thinking.
    i must be driving my mates mad, i just cant get him out of my thoughts and sleeping is a nightmare... i lay down, close my eyes and my thoughts go to him. Ugh, a permenant state of 'being trashed' is looking like a great option. Drink and sleep.
    As for fish in the sea, my friend is setting me up with ANOTHER personal trainer. Personal trainers in my opinion are arrogant self-absorbed robots.
    Wait... thats most men...
    Im not a man hater... yet...

  • Carrotgirl
    16 years ago

    Get back together, have children, its obvious

  • Carrotgirl
    16 years ago

    What......... so you have a problem with defunctional families?