i need some help..

  • creasy
    19 years ago

    see there is this guy that i am talking to (online) ...but just as friends...and i didnt tell him my real age!! see he is the type of person to be like "ooh shes young she doesnt understand" and since i told him my "age" he hasnt said anything about me not understanding.. but if i tell him that i am really a couple of years younger than i said i was ... he will be like "oo your too young to understand.." and he might not talk to me!! see i wanna be real with him (even though this thing isnt gonna go anywhere) as friends but i dont know what to say or how he's gonna act!!
    see i didnt like him from the start but as i got to know him, i began to fall for him (or who i think he is). i find myself missing him when hes gone!! and i think about him at times!! i wanna tell him i like him but the age diff. doesnt help!! i dont wanna go out with him or anything like that, i just wanna tell him that i like him and my "real age"!! but i dont know what hes gonna say!!
    we were so close until he said he was "moving" and didnt come back when he promised and now its like i dont even know how to talk to him!! i feel so awkward and have nothing else to say!!
    its kinda weird cuz i could give ppl advice on this, but i cant seem to give it to myself!! and i need your help!! please help me if you could and anything you have to say just say it!!! im not even sure if tif i made any sense at what i said above!! but if i did, please let me know what you think!!
    thanks a bunch!!

  • Katie Marie
    19 years ago

    Well for one you shouldn't put emotions and trust into 'online friends' you never know who they are or what there motive of talking to you is. I'm pretty sure you've probally already heard this but don't give your online friend your address, real name, etc. As for your feelings you probally just have a crush on 'him' because he tells you what you want to hear. And if he wouldn't talk to you anymore as a 'friend' because you're younger than you say you are then he's no real friend. Also if he is way older than you and doesn't mind you being so young maybe he's not who he says he is. I'm not trying to freak you out or anything but just be careful who you talk to on the internet. -hope i some how helped-

  • Heathergirl
    19 years ago

    i agree

  • creasy
    19 years ago

    thats true.. i shouldnt have 'lied' about my age but i didnt think that i would get as close to him as this. hes not "way" older just a couple of yrs. and i know now not to 'lie' about my age cuz something like this can happen!! and yes. i know not to give any info. out!! thanks for your advice and concern!!