How did you do it?

Today my dad came home and was quiet and ate alone and spent the majority of the night away from anyone. then my mom told my brothers and sister that he has Lukimia (sp). Blood Cancer. I was away at work and with a friend afterward so i didnt know about it until about midnight or so.

for those of you that have lost a parrent to cancer, how did you deal with it. im really not sure on what to do.

I never exprenced that but what about spending time with him,,like cheering him up?

I dnt know i never had someone so close to me die. i would spen every time i had with him with happines. to make him happy.

I completely agree with Bob, make everyday with him special. He will really appreciate the company once he starts treatment. My uncle has been fighting cancer for many years but its been a few different kinds spreading to different areas. Every minute you spend with him enjoying your time together is one minute that he won't be worried or have his guard up and he'll feel better.Best of luck & blessed be.