do i only like him cos he likes me?

  • Avellana
    19 years ago

    this boy i once really liked said he loved me but i told him i didn'y feel that way any more and really hurt him, now.... i dunno.... is it only cos he likes me ? anyone else been here? Help! he's only recently started talking to me again! and i don't want to hurt him.

  • Vicious Tragedy â„¢
    19 years ago

    well.... just sit yourself down and think bit... have u ever liked him before? or is this just ur way of feeling sorry because he told u something and u didn't feel the same way?

  • Heathergirl
    19 years ago

    i think you should just stick with the truth

  • creasy
    19 years ago

    you just dont wanna hurt him so you are making believe that you like him..your trying to convince yourself that you intersted..but your not!! this happened to me once before..i knew this boy but i never talked to him..i found out he liked me and kept giving me all this un-necessary attention and i actually thought i liked him..i didnt see the fact that he was really a jerk....as to your situation, just follow your heart., if you see yourself thinking about him all the time because you miss him then you do like him..
    ~~hope i helped a bit~~

  • Avellana
    19 years ago

    thanx this boy is a bit of a player and i do have trust issues. there are so many emotions rushing round here, i dont' know which ones are mine!

  • Avellana
    19 years ago

    here's a bit of follow up!
    recently like 2 days ago i had a 6th form ball. he was my date, (he asked me before all this kicked off and i thought we were just friends) and he went totally off his head drunk dragged my mate into a closet and came out l8r pulling up his flies. (my mate told me) before that i told him i didn't want anythin, and i guess i made the rite chice. lessons will be fun tom/mon!