My past....and prestent boyfriend should i tell him or not??

Ok so i was sexually abused when i was little and i really want to tell my boyfriend cuz i hate keeping secrets from him....but my rents say not to .....i dont know what to do do you think he will love me any less or do you think he will help me get over it cuz it haunts me everyday.....i kinda feel that its keeping us apart.....WHAT SHOULD I DO

How long have you been together? It is really up to you whether or not you share your past, but you have to realize it is off putting for some people, so you want to make sure you trust them.

We are going on 7 months on friday

I think you have been together long enough to approach the subject as long as you trust him.

There is nothing we should be telling you to do. This is something you must ask yourself. I say that there is nothing you SHOULD tell him. That is your decision and it is very personal. You have every right to not tell him. But if you feel that you are ready to tell him, then go for it. But you need to make sure that you are comfortable with it and that it's not something you will regret later.

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I agree, this is something you have to figure out for youself. If you feel like your ready then go ahead and tell him. But remember if you haven't dealt with that problem then I think it would be hard to tell someone and have them also involved.

You haven't been together for a real long amount of time, I hope your not asking because he's pressuring you to do anything. I know what it feels like to be sexually abused, I've been there. Not to say that he's love you anyless but guys, especially teenage guys, hate "baggage" & I found that out the hard way, I was open about it because I was scared anytime a guy even put his arm around my shoulders so they knew but then it ended badly until i found the right guy. I didn't know he was right until he saw me in my good and bad and still loved me.
So should you tell him? I wouldn't, not until you are sure he can handle it because it is alot for a guy to handle even if it didn't happen to him. Also, talk to your parents see why they don't want you to tell him about it.

Let me tell you something...
I have been through that and I have a boyfriend, and I told him... he really didnt say much but he said that he was there for me and he would be with me in anything I needed... I was comfortable enough to tell him, and I trust him alot.
But it is all up to how comfortable you are with him and how much you trust him...
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Hey guys i just wanted to update you on this situation....i did tell him and hes still with me thanks for everythin

Well thats good that he is not judging you for something you had no control over, and i even bet you that your relationship is a little bit stronger cuz you were honest with him. hope everything works out for the best. and keep your head high

Its very strong....we just made out for the first time and we've been dating for 10 months its so sweet!!! but we didnt use tongue thats still considered making out right???

If you feel you want/need to tell him then do it because it's your life.... it's really up to you....