Opinion...

Ok. My boyfriend broke up with me twice. The first time was my fault and I suffered the consequences. The second time he let someone get in between us. And it hurt. I had several nervous breakdowns because of this guy. We talked today and he told me how much he missed me and everything. This is where your opinion comes in. Do you think I'm a sucker or a moron? Or whatever you think. My friends think I'm a moron. But I truly love this boy. If you've read some of my other posts... this is the same guy. Please be honest!

Well if he said he missed you then why isn't he with you now? I can't tell you what you should do but in my opinion, if a guy really loves/likes you he wouldn't be able to cheat on you which I think that's what you meant when you said "he let someone get in between us". There's really not enough info for me to to say if you should be with this guy. but it seems your too dependent on this guy since you had several nervous breakdowns. You don't need a guy in your life. We've all survived years without a boyfriend and we were perfectly fine. I think you need a break from each other and clear your mind. Think about it, maybe everyone sees what you don't see that's why your friends are calling you a moron.

You ruined it the first time, he ruined it the second time, together you can both do it a third lol In the end you are going to do what you want anyway, so just make a decision and be ready to face whatever consequences may arise.

"You ruined it the first time, he ruined it the second time, together you can both do it a third"
Sorry but that's just plain dumb. If you go back to him, yes you are dumb, he will get what he wants get tired and leave just like the last two times.

Look. You don't actually need the opinions. Just go with what your heart tells you and if you get hurt, just remember...that's love for you. You get hurt, but you can also learn from mistakes. I'd say just make sure he's actually a guy to date a third time. Trust me. I've been hurt a lot. I just go for it. Don't be like me. Take time to get to know the guy more before you date him. Most likely, if he's dumped you for another girl once, he might do it again. Make sure he means what he says. And make sure you do it personally not just by him telling you. He needs to prove it to you. I promise, when he proves it to you, you'll know.

Oh yeah, another thing...don't just make him prove it by words. You need to be able to tell through actions, too.

Thanks you guys. I have explained to him that this is the last time we're doing this. I understand that he's under a lot lot of stress. His mother is pregnant with yet another baby that he will have to take care of. Not only that but he's got work and school to worry about. And I've got other stuff going on in my life and we both can't go on this emotional rollercoaster so this is the last time.

Definitely dont. i dated my ex on and off SIX times before i realized it would never work. each time he broke up with me for one silly reason or another..basically he knew he could always come back to me and used that to his advantage. if he couldnt find SOMEONE to be with, i was there...i was just...well..SOMEONE to be with. i wasnt special. finally this last time we came to the agreement that we could never date again [though after our 4th time he said he never would again, but he did..lol]. and i plan on sticking to that. even if i weren't with the most amazing person ever now, i would not go back to him. i was his doormat and a sucker and fool....im jsut warning you. you guys broke up for a reason. unless someone is about to change COMPLETELY..it will not work...

dont mean to be mean, im just telling you how it is before you get even more hurt. i was tossed around for nearly 2 years...it's a waste of time. find someone to appreciate you <3