Should i still go see him...please please help

Its like this
my exboyfren the "love of my life" is having a baby with another girl but he still wants me to come see him and all that. I'm hurting like crazy kuz of the baby situation its not the fact that he's havin one because some relationships work even when one person has a baby with someone else. its the fact he got her pregnant when we were suppose to be workin on the long distant relationship. and im like if you didnt want to try then you should have just said so and we woulda just worked things out with me going up there. I mean i still love him like crazy but i dunno if i should still go see him or not!!! i mean he tells me he loves me and wants me to go if i wanna go and when i ask how long he wants me to visit he says its up to me i just dun get it....i mean why cant he just tell me what he wants .....please help!!!

^^Agreed

Why are you waiting on him to tell you what he wants? Decide what you want. He cheated and he is having a baby with someone else, the drama would end there for me.

Sorry mii age is wrong on here. im about to be 18, i mean its not a big difference but its still a difference. i mean i dunno kuz i've seen relatoinships work with children involved before. like mii sister had a baby with another man now she's with someone who makes her happy and she's havin his baby now. i mean i told him so much about he knows nothin about love and im done and i havent gotten bakk with him but i mean i dunno...like i mean should i go out there just so i can get all the questions i have in the bakk of mii head answered or should u just let the questions stay the rest of mii life...i hate livin with wat if...

"i hate livin with wat if..."

There are "What ifs?" everywhere in life you will never escape them unless you want to. In the end it doesn't matter what anyone else has to say, the only person you are going to listen to is yourself, so make a decision and stick with it, accepting all consequences.