My bf is jealous of me ...what do I do???

  • Catty
    15 years ago

    My boyfriend has things a little harder than me. He has to work harder and longer and thinks that I have everything handed to me on a silver platter...everything but my grades. He constantly feels like I am better than him at EVERYTHING even though he is amazingat guitar and I don't even know how to play. What do I do? I'm scared he's going to get sick of feeling this way and leave me eventhough we've been together almost a year and he "needs me." I can't give averything to our relationship if I'm not sure he's not going to stick around. I know he loves me but I also know he's EXTREMELY competitive and prideful. I think alot of it has to do with his age. Personally I think he needs to grow up and he'll eventually grow out of it but I can't tell him that and I'm scared he's going to "fall out of love with me."

    What do I do??

  • AngelicDecadence
    15 years ago

    ^^^ I completely agree.

    You can love someone and they can love you but neither of you are right for one another, thats just how it goes sometimes.
    Oh! And by the way, he doesn't "need you" No one "needs" another person. We need food, water, etc. But not a person. He will survive, if he doesn't, or says he "cant" the relationship should be ended very soon. That could end up with him controlling you..
    Hope it gets better for you.

  • megan
    15 years ago

    If hes going to leave you over that hes not in love and you need to let him walk away

  • Catty
    15 years ago

    But he does care. he has changed so much since we've been together. I mean he has grown up alot. he was a two-week kind of guy when he met me and now he's been with me for over 10 months...he stopped drinking completely on his own because i inspired him and he's doing so much better in school. He says I motivate him to be a better person he just gets frustrated because he feels like I'm perfect sometimes and he can't live up to me but he has so much more on his plate than i do...

  • Catty
    15 years ago

    I never said he was never in a realtionship??? He was a two week guy because he was looking for the right one...the one girl that was different than all the others and that actually cared about HIM and not themselves...then he met me and suddenly he knew I was what he wanted. But he was slow opening up to me because of past wounds...which I totally understood!