Phantasma
16 years ago
My best friend likes me and I dont feel the same way so he gets really jealous when ever I talk about other guys and it's not that hes mean about it or anything its just he gets really sad and I can tell. Now because of this I feel like I can't date anyone or get a boyfriend because it will hurt him. Also hes always afraid he'll lose me even tho I tell him he wont and that I really care about him. What can I do to help him see that I do care about him and hes not going to lose me as a friend. Is it wrong for me to feel so guilty about this? and should I continue not to see anyone just so I dont hurt him? |
Beautiful Chaos
16 years ago
"I have these two friends" |
Misunderstood Misery
16 years ago
As for the second part, I understand. I have a couple of "friends" who do those sorts of things and then repeat or copy things I do or say. But I realized that they weren't my real friends. If they were your friends then they wouldn't get hateful and exclude you from things. If they were your real friends then they wouldn't do that to you. But that's just my oppinion. |
SomewhereAmongThePieces
16 years ago
My best friend is the same way. I told him that my relationships don't last that long and they always end in hatred SO I would rather have a best friend for a lifetime than a boyfriend for a week. Trust me, it sounds a whole lot better than "I just don't like you that way". |
Phantasma
16 years ago
I guess everyone is right about my best friend getting over me, it's just I dont like to see him sad expectually when its because of me. |