in-laws

Um... Sounds bad... umm you could get your whole family together some time when she's out and get everyone to talk about her and then all of you could ask her to be nicer or find somewhere else to live?
She might be like that because she's insecure(or however its spelt). Try talking to her?
xxx

I have been blessed with amazing in laws I love and welcome them always...
Its the beauty of marriage I have found I love the adjoining and joy shared by our two families together...