Cheating in a Relationship

I know its a testy subject with many. Those of us who've experienced cheating have been scarred by the actions of our partners. Some are hurt by it more than others. Some even don't pay much mind to it. It varies from person to person.

I'm starting this thread for those of us who just need to get it out or are looking for comfort from it all.

I was recently cheated on sexually a few weeks ago by my girlfriend of nine months. She's bi-curious, and had a friend over, who had convinced her to experiment a bit. So, I'm still recovering from that. She didn't let her finish because guilt took over, and she called me immediately when it was over and told me, but still, it hurts like hell.

I can't trust her at all now, and I feel like if she REALLY loved me as much as she says she does, I wouldn't have been hurt like that.

Anyone else having problems?

[Moved from, "Sadness and depression" forum to the, "Love and romance" forum.] - Joe

"She's bi-curious, and had a friend over, who had convinced her to experiment, She didn't let her finish because guilt took over"

Being a bisexual woman myself, I have to say no one could convince me to do anything I didn't want to do and if I am stopping due to guilt, it is because I know MY choice was wrong.

*sighs* I'm sorry you went through that, I don't know how anyone doesn't get hurt by when their partner cheats on them. Hurt more then I thought it could when my ex cheated on me then lied about it then dumped me for the girl the same day he started dating her. Guess he didn't like being told "no" :P It's been close to 2 years now but it still hurts at times and still affects how I handle my current relationship even though I know he's completely different. If your willing to try to work through it and find forgiveness then more power to you my friend, it takes a long time to build the trust back if ever.