aborition

  • Heather S.
    19 years ago

    by no means can this be right with god or in anyones mind

  • !*!Zoe!*!
    19 years ago

    It's right in my mind, therefore I have proven your theory to be wrong.

    xoxZoexox

    P.s. If you are going to start a thread like this, please spell the title correctly!

  • Heather S.
    19 years ago

    Frist off i'am sorry about the miss spelling. The reason i have brought this up is that resently i was faced with this problom and just wanted to know what other people thought. And your right God will be the one to say if it is right or wrong. Thank you for everything you have posted and keep them coming like me it could help someone.

  • Heather M Craig
    19 years ago

    learned something new about you Bob...

    n e how Heather, i do find it okay as long as it was for the reason of rape or finally unstable but if you were out just being irresponsible then you deserve this child. Gotta say its up to the individual, we can't judge them. we don't know how they feel.

    God bless
    Love Heather Craig

  • Heather S.
    19 years ago

    Just to let you know i am keeping it. But thanks for all the input

  • bianca
    19 years ago

    ok jus my thougths....
    I do not belive in abortion because the taking of a life other then ur own is not ur choice... BUT there are some times where abortion should be alowed... like if a grl is raped thenit should be alowed... but jus because you "accedently" get pregnate no it is wrong.... but i am not onw to judge, u will all be judged by ur gods... me i dont believe in god... but i still think its wrong in some cases....

  • XxCamyxX
    19 years ago

    first of all wat DOES aborition MEAN?!!!!I'm confused cuz nobody has brought this up!

  • !*!Zoe!*!
    19 years ago

    I think that unless you have gotten pregnant because you chose to, abortion cannot be wrong.
    xoxZoexox

  • wings.in.flight.
    19 years ago

    abortion is soo wrong ur killy a fuking baby (kind of) (near future baby) and its like killing a human being if u were like 13 id understand bu seriously whoeva does it is fucked to me... like it fucking kills your heart wen u have misscarriges (i would no) but u dont choose to have them but wen ur having an abortion wot r u heartless cold fuking freaks???????

  • wings.in.flight.
    19 years ago

    lmfao going at it at the bathroom floor, thts a classic amber lmao

  • Kevin
    19 years ago

    I don't mean to be insulting here, but what does God have to do with someone getting pregnant?....there is no miracle in childbirth, no more than eating food and then going to the bathroom to poo it out.

    It would be a better world i think if people stopped attributing all manner of good things to God, and all manner of bad things to the Devil.

    We are the only ones who make things happen.

    Fact.

  • !*!Zoe!*!
    19 years ago

    I don't believe in God. I never count on doing either. Carrying a baby is one of the biggest things a woman can do. This is should be something that she ctually wants to do. If having this baby is going to ruin her life, then she shouldn;t have the baby. Also, if the baby is going to be brought into the world by some 15 year old rape victim who is barely living off welfare and can hardly feed herself, is it really such a good idea? Another thing, you say that aborting a baby iskilling it, well in a way, if someone doesn't want to have a baby and you force them to have, you are killing them, not literally, but youa re taking away their dreams and hopes for the future.

    xoxZoexox

  • Heather S.
    19 years ago

    i feel everyone is a litle more aware of their options and i am supriced by some opinions. this has a big change for me (having a baby and all) but i would not change a thing she is perfect. Even with out a father!

  • Natalie84
    19 years ago

    I think it is garbage. If you spread your legs you should deal with the consequences. Simple as that. I don't respect people who think that killing an innocent child is ok and justifiable, it's not. I think if you can watch your child be sucked right from your body then you are a sick and twisted individual. A baby is a living thing from the time of conception and it's not ok if you do it in the first couple months of pregnancy. It's wrong period!

  • Natalie84
    19 years ago

    Here we meet again Zoe...and again we disagree.

    If a woman doesn't want to have a baby she should take precautions. (Condoms, birth control, abstinence.) Abortion is NOT birth control. It is wrong. If a baby would ruin her life she should think of that before she has sex. Carry the baby full term....give it up for adoption. So many people want babies but can't physically carry one of their own. It's not difficult to find babies happy homes. There are other options, abortion is wrong. Murder I believe.

  • !*!Zoe!*!
    19 years ago

    But what if BEING pregnant will ruin their life? Carrying an embryo and a foetus around fornine months is no easy task.
    Natalie84, are you the same Natalie as before? If so, this should be interesting......

    xoxZoexox

  • Sean Allen
    19 years ago

    my only question on the topic is where you settle the conflict of rights. A woman has a right to do what she will to her own body provided she doesn't harm herself, and provided her action isn't illegal.

    And every person has a right to life.

    So I guess what I'm getting at is this:

    Birth is a unique situation when it comes to...well just about anything. Because it involves the creation of life, and because we are assholes, it has become neccessary that we define when life actually begins. Is an embryo an organism? It certainly can't sustain life on its own. Does it have life? What is life?

    The situation grows out of control as more and more philosophical questions stem from this legal one.

    I thought I was going to post a question, but I guess I was wrong.

  • Eibutsina
    19 years ago

    PRO CHOICE!!!!!!!!

  • Natalie84
    19 years ago

    If carrying a baby for nine months is such a horrible task you shouldn't spread your legs without taking precautions. The heat of the moment is not worth the loss of a life.

    My door step is also a safe baby home. I would take any baby, any time.

  • Heather S.
    19 years ago

    please read this poem and try to see it from another point of view

    Is it a Crime.

  • Natalie84
    19 years ago

    I read it. It's murder. It should be illegal. It is a living thing when you abort it, therefore that's wrong.

  • !*!Zoe!*!
    19 years ago

    If whatever you are killing doesn't register that they are dying, according to me, it's not murder. Now, I am not saying that you should go and kill mentally handicapped people, because that is NOT what I am saying. The thing is, the embryo does not really know it is alive...can it know that's it's dead?
    What if it's a suicidal one? Some people just are.

    xoxZoexox

  • Natalie84
    19 years ago

    Zoe...please...just give it up. What you just asked was completely ridiculous. Every baby deserves a chance at life. Period.

  • Natalie84
    19 years ago

    Well, I sure hope you don't ever have any children, the poor thing won't have a chance with you. Abortion is wrong. I'm not trying to change anyone's opinions or beliefs just stating mine. If you don't think it's wrong you're an idiot. That's it.

  • Heather S.
    19 years ago

    Natalie84 i was not saying that i was for aborting babies by telling you to read the poem i just wanted everyone to get in to a mother's or soon to be mom's head and see what she would have been thinking.

  • Natalie84
    19 years ago

    I understand that now and I understood that then. Like you I am just stating the way I feel about it, it's garbage. Complete garbage.

  • Natalie84
    19 years ago

    The issue has come up in the lives of people I most dearly care for also. (My sister and my very best friend.) They both had abortions. My sister who had hers 11 years ago can't even talk about it. Since it happened, she and I talked ONE time and she told me that her baby would be 9 years old if she wouldn't have been so damn stupid. My friend cried to me 6 months later, telling me for the first time. She didn't know what to do. She hates herself for doing it. She KNOWS her life would be so much different had she not done it. Her life would be a lot better because she would still be with the man who got her pregnant. See she never told him until afterwards. She moved out of the state and when she came back and told him he wanted nothing to do with her. I know what it does to people’s lives. I think it's garbage. Whether or not your opinion is for it or not, I think abortion is garbage. So YES, if you don't think it's wrong then to ME your opinion is GARBAGE. Sorry don't mean to be rude but I feel strongly about the subject. Unfortunately I also know a couple dit wits that use abortion as birth control. No matter how you look at it it's garbage. The only legitimate reasons for abortion are if a woman has been raped or could be physically harmed by carrying a child. But even then I don't think it's RIGHT. My sister-law-in had three kids. She didn't carry any of them full term, she knew there could be complications whether it be to her or the baby, but she took the chance all three times. The life of her children was more important than her own safety and well being. That's a real mother. A real woman. No one could tell me any reason that would be good enough to KILL their child. Every child deserves a chance at life and if you can't give a baby that then don't open your legs, simple as that.

  • Bret Higgins
    19 years ago

    I'm going to keep this real short and simple:

    PREVENTION IS BETTER THAN CURE

    (Sure acciddents happen even when you're careful, but better to think for five seconds before you throw your life away for an unprotected tumble that probably had you counting ceiling tiles anyway.)

  • !*!Zoe!*!
    19 years ago

    I'm sorry, Natalie, it was meant as a joke, I guess this is not the right thread for it.

  • Eibutsina
    19 years ago

    Heather by no means are you God nor do YOU or anyone else within this site have a right to judge any woman based on her decision...

    Only God Can Judge Us...

    Eirisa

  • iwanttobalone
    19 years ago

    so you sat its a womans choice? so if i go out and kill som erandom guy on the street itd be okay cuz it was my choice to kill him?

    answer that.

  • Ashleigh Skye
    19 years ago

    this can be a very touchy subject but I belive that it is the mothers choice... now that doesnt give her the right to just have children all of the time and then abort them but it gives her an option... besides when it is time to do the procedure it isnt even a real baby its just a bunch of cells. But I belive that ppl should really think these things through b4 they decide anything..... now i know im gonna get ppl arguing with me but that is the beauty of a free country we can debate these kinds of things

  • Natalie84
    19 years ago

    It's not a real baby, just a bunch of cells? That's the dumbest thing I have ever heard! OMG so ignorant. It's a baby from the very second of conception. It's not right. IT'S MURDER!!

  • SweetDreamer
    19 years ago

    At the top of the page, Ness made a comment, and I really agree with her. I'm not for abortion, for many reasons, but if it posed potentially fatal risks for the mother or baby, or if she was raped, then I believe abortion should be an option. There's pros and cons to every issue.

  • Natalie84
    19 years ago

    If you had read all of my post you would have seen that I said there are two reasons in which I could only see abortion being CONSIDERED and they were if a woman was raped or if she or her child would be in harms way. I don't think it's right either way but I could reason with a woman who has those for reasons. Like I said before my sister-in-law went through with three child births knowing her risks. For someone to say that a baby is just a cluster of cells when abortion takes place is ignorant. It's a LIVING being upon conception. And if that were the case why are so many girls devastated because of seeing a babies limbs sucked through a tube during abortion? I don't care who you know that has had an abortion or for what reasons, like you I am only stating my opinion. My opinion is that it is murder and it is wrong. And I too know people who have had abortions, people who are filled with regret. People who HATE what they did. Financial dependency isn't a good reason to kill a child. I know lots of people who are very very unwealthy with kids who are some how making it happen. Living in public housing with minimum wage paying jobs and being able to feed and clothe their children. It can work, but you have to be dedicated and work hard. There is NO excuse for it. You can't argue with me, because your point of view will never be clear to me. I don't give a rip how you and your friends feel, I know it's wrong, period.

  • Natalie84
    19 years ago

    I don't care what you think my opinion is because it is just that...MINE. I feel the way I do because I think every baby has the right to have a chance at life. And I know what it does to people who don't give babies that chance, just like the girl right above me. Being raped is a painful experience but becoming pregnant because of it is even worse and still she wishes she would have kept the baby. Now could you imagine a girl living with that for the rest of her life just because she got caught up in the moment and accidentally forget to tell him to use a rubber? How silly. It's ridiculous to even have this debate, because so many of you think it's just ok, (go a head and kill the baby, who cares) Well, I think it's sick. If you don't want a baby and you are not financially stable to do so DON'T SPREAD YOUR LEGS. DUH!

  • Anne Conner
    19 years ago

    Really I don't mean to be rude, but personally I believe there is a miricle in childbirth. Without God there is nothing, was nothing, and there will never be anything. Thankfully, their is a God out their that cares. However I think that most people disagree with my view. If I was ever raped and got pregnant I would have the child, not murder it. There are plenty of places you can put a child up for adoption.
    I am sorry if any of my comments hurt someones feelings. I do not mean for anyone to take it that way.

  • Anne Conner
    19 years ago

    God cares, that is why he puts us through so much. He does it to strengthen our faith in Him and who are we to critisize

  • Anne Conner
    19 years ago

    If God was cruel than He would just send us all to hell. However, He died on the cross for us.

  • Eibutsina
    19 years ago

    PRO CHOICE!