Losing grip HELP!!

  • Finding myself
    15 years ago

    I've been going out with this guy for about 10 months and he just decided to take a break out of no where.
    Everything was going pretty well but i dont know wat happened
    Should i be concerned?

  • Beautiful Chaos
    15 years ago

    Well only he can say for sure, I assume he didn't just say "I need a break" and walk away and if he did that's kinda cold, you atleast deserve some sort of explanation.

  • BrokenREALiTy
    15 years ago

    If you really want to know, ask him. We don't know him. So we can't tell you whether to be concerned or not. My ex at least told me why he wanted us to break up so suddenly. He started the conversation. I ended it. And we're still close. Communication is key.

    Wondering isn't going to do you any good. It's why he and I functioned well together. We both knew when something was wrong, or if we felt it--we'd talk about it.

  • Finding myself
    15 years ago

    We didnt break up were just on a break
    but he said theres alot of stuff going on rite now so we should take a break
    i understand where hes coming from with that
    but its still confusing because its still like we go together

  • Freckles
    15 years ago

    If you understand, why are you confused?
    you two decide together whether its a break or not. people on a break arent supposed to act like theyre together. A break is to take time apart..from eachother.
    hope it works out for you.

  • Finding myself
    15 years ago

    Thats wat im confused about because we still talk every nite and it seems like were spending even more time together then we did before. so i dont think its a point in being on a break

  • xxxStarSxxx
    15 years ago

    My ex pulled that line on me and it was a bad sign. If you really like someone, why would you want to take a break from them? He dumped me two weeks later. I am sorry to say chika, but if you can't get him to talk about what's bothering him, everything is going to go down the drain. I say get him and you alone asap and have a good long talk. Let him tell you all that is bothering him. He at least owes you that kind of explanation.

    Good luck to you both and message me if you need more help. I am always here.

    <3 Stefanie

  • Freckles
    15 years ago

    Couples go on breaks for various reasons. Sometimes you need it to think things through, that doesn't necessarily mean its 'going down the drain'.
    Talk it out with him.

  • Lori
    15 years ago

    Talk to him. That's the only way you will ever be able to solve this. Communication truly is the key. (In this situation)

  • Kelsie
    15 years ago

    Guys change their mind all the time. as do girls. the best thing to do is maybe give him his space, and then try talking to him because you are entitled to know what is going on.

  • Rynishia
    15 years ago

    I dnt know? THe only advice I shold give you is to talk about it with him. Something could be going on in his life and he needs sometime. Don't beat yourself up over it.

  • Mask of Pain
    15 years ago

    I think you should talk to him. If he really cares about you and loves you he would tell you what is going on. Goood lucky.
    PEacues, love, poety.
    Sarah

  • Finding myself
    15 years ago

    Thnx for everyones advice
    even though i still dont know wat to do
    but he wont talk about it and everything seems ok with him so idk....
    its been like 2 weeks and everything seems the basically the same except the title of us being together