How to get over him...????

How can I get over my first love?? It's been a few months since we broke up and I still feel a pain (even though I am the one that broke up with him, I'm such a loser)...Does anyone know anything that can help me?

Browneyedgirl-

First off, I want you to know that I totally and completely understand what you are feeling right now. It is reall yhard to get over your first love. Almost 5 months ago, mine dumped me after 10 months of constant love, caring and devotion. I was crushed. I just got over him about a week ago. I did cut over him, I did go crazy over him, it hurt so much to see him, but I did it. I finally did it.
First I was wondering whether I should just tell him
How I felt, but I chickened out on that. THen I was convinced that he had to hit me. Like, slap me across the cheek. I asked a lot of people about this and most peoplesaid that is wasn't a good idea. So, I ended up not asking him to. THen, the weirdest thing happened. I was at a concert and there was this hot guy there and we hooked up. I don't know his last name, his phone number, his
address, and he doesn't even live in the same town as me. It wasn't until the next day or so that I realised that that had made me over him. I am not saying that going to make out with some random guy is a GOOD idea, but if it's just a little something on the spur of the moment, what harm can it do?
Trust me, I think you'll be able to get over him,
xoxZoexox