My best friend or my crush? :|

  • xX the left behind Xx
    15 years ago

    Ok..well..i have this problem..
    i have this best friend..he's a guy..we know a lot about each other and he's always there for me...and i've always liked him secretly..i never told anyone about it...then there's this other guy i like..my "crush"..a lot of people knows that i like him but i only rarely talk to him and don't really know him that much..

    but..about a month back..my best friend suddenly told me that he liked me and all that..and he always did..and he always will..he was just afraid to tell me..
    of course..i should be thrilled because we now have the same feelings for each other and go on to the next level..but i wasn't..it was kinda wrong timing..he told me at about the same time that my crush started to show signs that he liked me back and he would always give not-so-subtle hints that he wanted to be with me..

    so there i was..stuck between two guys..what made things worse is that..my best friend and my crush..are friends..so i'm generally getting in the way of their friendship. :|

    until now..i still really dont know what to do..and they're still both there..waiting for me..
    what should i do? :|

  • Aveena
    15 years ago

    If you can't answer that one yourself, noone else can for you.

  • Gem
    15 years ago

    I think you know in your heart what you should do..

  • Lori
    15 years ago

    I agree with Britt. Cmon. The guy who would do anything for you against someone who shows tiny little signs. Let's go. Use your head

  • xToBeWithYoux
    15 years ago

    Choose the guy who you think about the most, who you dream about the most, just who ever feels right for you :)

  • xX the left behind Xx
    15 years ago

    Well..thanks for all ur help guys..but i'm afraid i don't have to choose anymore..
    i've decided on dropping them both..
    my best friend is now courting one of my other friends..he just did..out of the blue..didn't even bother to tell me..i just learned from the girl he's courting now..
    and my crush has like..stopped..
    so there..hurts but..things are better this way..
    i guess..anyway..
    thanks again. :)