What do i do?

My boyfriend and i have been together for a little over a year now and his parents have gotten really strict and right now he cant talk to me or see me till he gets his FOUR D's up..... today one of my closest friends texted me and told me that he was with another girl at school, hugging and stuff, in the past i thought he was cheating on me with her but he "wasn't"... how can i find out the truth.... im sitting here crying and i just want some type of comfort and what i want most is to talk to him but i wont get that till '09 when we go back to school after christmas break....

To be honest...a hug is a hug, it's not a kiss, it's not intercourse, etc. Many people hug around the holiday seasons, it's not a big deal in my eyes, as long as he's not kissing, etc.

Hmm, well I agree with everyone that a hug is just a hug. But I could understand why you would be jealous of that because he's probably never hugged a girl 'cept you but it probably happened because you weren't in school that day. But it's hard to find out if a guy is cheating, but I can tell that you can't trust him. But you should always listen to your heart, is he worth the pain?

A hug is a hug, but he's probably not likely to kiss a girl who isn't you in front of everyone. As for what he would do... that's just something you have to ask him. Trust is important in a relationship. If you can't trust him, or if he can't be trusted, then there's not much to work with. Hope everything turns out alright for you.

Thanks to all of you.
the reason im like this is because we've had a couple rough patches and ive been in a couple bad relationships and i know its not right of me to take that out on him but thats just the way i am and yes i will admit i do get jealous EASY! maybe some of you are right, maybe its not worth all this, maybe he doesnt really want me, maybe ugh idk. i hate "love" and relationships.

Hmm Can't you just write him a letter? Or is that against rules too?

Well. i sent him a message on myspace but im guessing he isnt allowed to be on that either. and yes honeslty writting him a letter is against his parents rules.

Well hun, like everyones said a hug is just a hug. I hug all my guy friends, something my boyfriend has had to deal with from time to time but thats just who I am. Him hugging another girl doesn't point towards cheating at all or I think almost every couple would be in danger. But also like everyones said, if you can't bring yourself to trust him and are always thinking that he's cheating on you then I'm afraid that the relationship is on the fast line towards a messy crash/breakup. I know where your coming from with the bad previous relationships and that making it hard for you trust but if he's not working at helping you through that then chances are he's not worth the pain anyway. My advice would be to try to wait it our till you can talk to him, see what he has to say for himself and then go from there. Don't jump to any rash ideas or choices when your emotional and can't talk to him hun. Hang in there

Thank so much guys!
well the good news is he got to talk to me yesterday for two & a half hours. and everything is uhhmazzinggg. the down-fall is when i asked about the other girl thing he said she was never around him & i was texting the person that told me at the same (shes my best friend) and she said that he was lying and all this so i told them both i didnt care anymore it was the past and were just gonna move forward with our relationship and make it the best it can be until were in the same school again. or out of school. i have realized that i do love him dearly and i shouldnt have listened when i was told that. but were not all perfect & in the end this situation had a perfect endinggg =)

i am sssssssooooooooo happy!