I hate myself

I do really hate myself.I feel that there is nothing special about me.When I look at myself in the mirror I only see an ugly depressed girl.
I feel that everybody hates me and doesn't care about me. I hate my life and I feel that there is no hope to change this tiring life coz am dead already...

Listen Heba...
No matter how hard things go in life try to think positive, turn all the bad things that happen to you into good things in your mind. Don't let anyone bother you by saying you are a bad person or making you think of yourself in a bad way. I know you're a good person and you should too. Have faith in yourself and judge yourself like you think you deserve to be judged, not like how other people think you are.

Thanks dear,I am really trying my best.May Allah guide me to the right way coz am confused and lost here.

Well thanks a lot sir for this advice.Sure am gonna work on it.

Don't ever say you hate yourself.

I used to be like that but I learned that when you are not comfortable with yourself, people aren't comfortable with you.
And, please, don't ever wish you were dead. The feeling will pass. Feel better, we are all unique and have certain qualities that make us all special.

I hope all goes well.

Thanks a lot am really trying my best..

It's not about "trying". Trying is the most annoying word you could EVER use. you should not TRY, you need to DO and ACT.

Live your life to the fullest, come on girl, you've got your whole life ahead of you!! You need to do so many things, need to help so many people. If you don't live your life for YOURSELF, if you are that selfish that you don't even love yourself anymore, then at least live your life for other people. Help other people it makes you feel so much better.

You need to set goals, you need to do the best you can to reach them. If you don't reach them, don't worry, something else will come on your path which is actually better.

You should not just sit there at home thinking nobody likes you or everybody hates you, cause if you stop thinking with your heart and start thinking with your head for just once, you would know that's bull. There's so many people out there that love you and want you around and what are you doing? You're not being there for them when they need you and want you. That's not good. There are people out there, you may not even know them yet, but they're waiting for you to come into their lives.

Seriously, think about it. Make the best out of life, you've got to live it anyway, you might as well make it a little more pleasant to live it. I've been depressed myself, I never went to a shrink so I've got no idea if this is just working for me but really, the way YOU are living right now, can't be nice so you might as well just give it a try, right? I know how hard it is, but you just need to do this for yourself and for all the people who love you and who you have forgotten.

Good luck, you can always talk to me if you need me.

THANKS a lot dear for that sweet advice sure am gonna do it and thanks god I have just started from today.I have just helped a friend of me and am so pleased...

Good :D See, if you do this more often you will feel better and in the end you will be happy again. Helping other people makes you feel wanted and needed. It's what you need :D

Thanks a lot dear and you are absloutly right.