AGH! Boyfriend Troubles.

  • Of Sweet Insanity
    15 years ago

    So my boyfriend Taylor went to Florida to do a boot-camp type of thing only a lot less severe.
    Wellll he was there for roughly 6 months and he met a LOT of new people...
    A lot of them came back from the place too. He still talks to them, one in particular named Johannah.
    Now, I KNOW he lovesssss me SO MUCH, no doubt about it... But he talks with Johannah sooo much and she's funnier than me and they have so much in common...
    I feel LEFT OUT.
    And forgotten sometimes. Like right now, I'm on the phone with him and he's texting her, not talking to me very much.. ONly telling me all the witty and funny things she says.
    Like they're flirting but he doesn't see it like that, he sees it as FRIENDS.

    What should I tell him??
    What do I do??
    I know that they're friends and I refuse to say that they can't be. I'm not a b****! But I AM a jealous monster.

  • Kelsie
    15 years ago

    If you love him and he loves you then you should be open with him about. He should have friends but if it bothers you a lot just let him know whats up becase otherwise he might not know that hes hurting you. If he is just being friends with her then theres not anything to worry about, if he loves you then he would not do anything to hurt you. Just let him know whats up.

  • xXpretty in blackXx
    15 years ago

    People that go through basic have a lot of fun times and hard times, and they learn to rely on eachother and become good friends through the process. In the army there isnt females or males, its soldiers and battle buddies. Im sure he just see's her as a good friend, not some girl to get with. Pieces.

  • Kayla
    15 years ago

    ^
    It's a public site. People are allowed to post about their love problems. I'm sorry if that's so hard to understand.

    Sweet heart, I would confront him about it. Let him know that YOU are his girlfriend. Not this girl. You're okay with them being friends, but it looks like he's getting way too comfortable with this chick. Just tell him how you feel about the situation. If he really loves you like he says, he'll understand and draw a line between him and this girl. Good luck.

  • Kayla
    15 years ago

    No love is perfect. There is no point in just posting,"Oh yes. Everything is perfect with them. I'm in love."

    People would post, oh great.... good for you.. that's it. That's not helping anyone. And no one would read it.