Why would he?

So yesterda at school, we had some graduates talk to us seniors during our theologoy class about what college is like and what to expect. Well my ex ended up having to talk to my class. It was well awkward at first and everytime he talked he seemed to stare right at me. I'm sitting in the back of the room and there he is staring at me, but only when he was talking. I'm not imagining it they guy in front of me turned around and realized it was me behind him, and then I was like did you not see him staring he's like yea, makes perfect sense now. And I told my friend and she's like yea I saw him do the same thing. Whenever he talked he'd look at you but when he wasn't he would look to the side or down at the ground.
If he doesn't like me, why would he stare at me? I don't understand him. It's not like he didn't know anyone else in the class.

When he can't talk to you, or give you the time of day. And there's 30 other places to look and it was at me every time. It's kinda ridiculous. I don't see why he would do it. He wants nothing to do with me and I've never done ANYTHING to him.

Are you serious right now? Is there a question your asking or just something you consider "weird" that you wanted to share with us? There is no point to this so called topic.

I want someone to explain to me why he did this. Yes it's a question

Maybe its just plain and simple. you're his ex and him having to stand up there in front of all of you and talk could have made him nervous and he needed someone to look at while talking. It probably isn't as big as you're making it out to be.

I know when I give speeches or have to talk in front of a lot of people i pick someone or a few people to look at in order to focus.

I'm confused. You're way older than me, but you're worried about your ex looking at you. Sheesh, what's the world coming to?

He's most likely an uncomfortable public speaker, he saw you and you were familiar to him. You were in a comfortable place for him to look where he didn't have to stretch his eyes around. Basically I'm guessing he wasn't even looking at you, and if he was it was because you are familiar to him. When I public speak I get nervous, I look at the back wall and I also look more towards people I know because of the familiarity. it's less embarrassing then having to stare at a person that you don't know and would consider a stranger then to look towards your ex in my opinion.

But that's me. This person could be completely different. I can't tell you why he did something, neither can anyone but himself. Although if you ask him you'll most likely be embarrassed with his answer.

Hey, I know a great way you can find out why he was staring at you! Go up and ask him. Personally, the direct approach is how I handle most situations. And after you get an answer it might allow you to worry about something less signinficant. Like the economic crisis or something. I mean, I know that's not QUITE as important and all but hey you cant win 'em all!

I would assume he was loookin at the wall, cuz thats what most speakers do. I have to make presrntions in front of guys iii like. I get so nervous easiest way it took llook at the very back wall. Obv you said you sit at the backk, prob direct from were he was standing...?

nothing to stress over, get over it.

Obviously YOU still have feelings for him, if he was the one who broke up with you than just give him some space, if he really was intending to look at you because he has feelings for you then he will eventually get back with you. Just don't give yourself false hope, or stop living life like you would if he didn't. because the way I see it he could've as others said before me been looking at the wall or the back row because he was giving a speach or he might've not expected to see you so he sort of reflexed.
If you were the one who broke up with him then go talk to him.
*Hey everyone here, just because she brought up something small like a guy looking at her doesn't make it worthless to mention. She had a problem and came to see who could help, if you don't have an answer then don't answer. Anyway, us girls (most of us) fuss about little things just like boys will always be boys girls never stop having the teenage attitude, we just need the support, if you make a big deal out of something small and simple like this we don't feel more mature and gather ourselves, we hide it and then cry it off.

Thank You :)