Prom?

Okay this guy he's a senoir and graduating this year. he's in my brother year, their not that mych of friends tho,. he asked me to go to his senior prom with him. I like him, a lot. I want to go, but I thnk my brother might feel awk having his little sister being there and all.. Should I just tell him no or...? SHould I talk to my brother or osmething...

sorry i prob sound really stupid, I just dont know what to doo...i just want to hear some options/opinions

I would ask your brother what he thinks. If he doesn't have a problem with it than go for it. If he does, then don't take it personally. But it might be best to let him have his big night or whatever, and you have yours in your own year.

He isn't your master, you can pick what you want to do with your life...do what makes you happy.

Alright thanks guys. :)

I would ask him how he felt about it.. not ask his permission.

Yeah ii think i will ask him how he feels but I dont think that he will take it well. cuz I asked him is ---- taking his gf (shes in my grade) to semi, hes like "no prob not why would he"

Ask your brother. He might not be too happy with his little sister ruining his night by turning up.
How would you feel if it was the other way around?

I prob would feel bad if it was me..
thanks : )

Seriously, I'd ask him. Not if I could go but how he felt about it. And, if he doesn't like the idea then I'd hope that you'd have enough of a heart to decide not to go.

Senior prom is a HUGE, HUGE, HUGE deal. If he doesn't mind, then go. But, if he cares I'd suggest letting him have his big night. You'll have yours

(I know people have said that before, though)

You know what, after I read what EVERYONE said here, I think i could make my own decision. I dont think I should go. Just by asking him would make it worse, specially sinse we havent bbeen gettin along lately. A lot is saying senior prom is a big deal, and i guess your right, ill have my turn soon. Ill just tell the boy on Monday I dont think I should go.

Thanks you guys :)

I think that's a very nice decision, Aveena. I'm sure you would have had lots of fun. But it's nice to see someone take their family into consideration before making decisions.

Kudos for you. (:

Life and death has nothing to do with this, whatsoever. So that was a bad example on your part.

Prom is a huge deal to many, many people. It's a huge night, a night that you'll remember forever. ESPECIALLY as a senior

Just because you find no seriousness in it does not mean that other people don't. And, it doesn't mean that Prom Night is not VERY important to them. As a senior they're celebrating High School coming to an end. It's more than just dancing and crap.

So, it's not just a prom. Senior should and do look at it differently that Juniors and the other youngens do. Because, it's the last estravagnza (sp) that they will have together as a class.

It's not a big deal to you. But you can't gauge how her brother will react to his little sister being there.

And jees, she made her decision. Drop it.

I think some people just like to argue.

Anyone who knows anything about High School whatsoever knows that prom is a big deal. You know this before you're anywhere near high school. I knew this in SIXTH GRADE, if not before. And, I don't have older brothers or sisters. Just because it's not a big deal to some doesn't mean it's not a big deal to others.

I think this topic is finsihed now.
Guys i made my answer.
&& there isnt naything to dicuss..
&& eveyrone has their own opinions.