Confused

  • michael
    15 years ago

    Been away 6 months...girlfriend cheated on me for the last 2 months why do i keep comforting her because she misses the boys in germany that she got with??
    what to do??

  • michael
    15 years ago

    We have been together 2 and a half years

  • Beautiful Chaos
    15 years ago

    The first thing I would do is stop calling her your girlfriend. You're comforting her because she misses the guy she cheated with? Where is her concern for what she has done to you?

  • TheRevelation
    15 years ago

    I agree, this isn't a girlfriend, this is someone you just need to get over. Sooner or later you'll have to let go fully, stop comforting her and move on with your life.

  • Mishka
    15 years ago

    She's a bitch
    she does not deserve your comfort
    another innocent, lonley girl does. <3

  • Elizabeth
    15 years ago

    What really confuses & rattles me the most is, that you're "comforting" her because she misses these other guys she cheated on you with & because you're "comforting" HER even at all... I say it like " " this because what you're doing right now is not comforting her but actually is ENABLING her & leading her to believe that she can get away with anything; now & in the future.

    Are you really letting her get away with betraying you after 2 1/2 years with nothing more than a, "It's okay, I'm here for you."? Where was she for you? Where are all the answers to your questions as to why? Are you that desperate, like Amanda said, for a relationship?

    As an individual; as a women, this "girlfriend" you claim her to be, what she's done & how she's reacting disgusts me... She obviously has no morals for or of herself, no feelings of regret & no respect for you. She's not worth it; it's not worth it. You deserve better.

  • Elizabeth
    15 years ago

    ^ Sadly, that is true. I know a few close friends who fit the description. :(

    And that's the description the posters fits too. All I have to say is that I have no sympathy for him...

    Off topic, what in the world happened to Kurmit!? Haha

  • Elizabeth
    15 years ago

    ^ Haha! That was the highlight of my day, thus far! :)

  • XxBAYBiiGiRLxX
    15 years ago

    You deserve better!
    she cheated on you and now she misses who she cheated on you with...
    Find a girl who deserves your love and won't take it for granted

  • bianca
    15 years ago

    Find a girl who wont do that to you. No one deserves that, and im fairly certain you deserve WAY better. Move on, it will hurt for a while, but the pain does ease, and you'll see you are better off with out them. Trust me, i have had a similar experence.
    <3 Bianca