I dont know how to show him i care.

  • wewriteourownstory
    15 years ago

    Recently my boyfriend had to move to a whole different state than me and while he wants to stay a couple i know that it wont work that way. He doesnt believe i care and that was why i wont stay with him. But in reality its me i am worried about. what if i decided that we should stay a couple and then while we were a couple i realized that i didnt have the same feelings for him anymore. Now he calls me everynite which i dont have a problem with but we always end up fighting. and i do love him so i dont want to make him so mad he quits calling me. and when he is in my state we hang out but he gets over protective and mad if we go to a party and another guy talks to me. or if another guy texts me. i dont know what to do. i love him and cant bear pushing him too far away. please help...

  • Brittney
    15 years ago

    Sweetie your 15 possibly 16 by now, your right, its probably not going to work. if you already have that feeling before he moves away then why hang on anyway. your all but setting yourself up to hurt you and him both worse in the end. just talk to him and let him know that maybe if he gets to move back that yall could possibly get back together or something... idk. just explain to him that it might be better for both of yall if you are just friends while he is living in a completely different state.