Jess
19 years ago
me and my boyfriend have been going out for 2 months, and everything is perfect so far.. we dont fight or argue about anything.. hes really been the best boyfriend to me.. But two days ago he was acting kinda different.. so i asked him online if he liked me as much as he did when we FIRST started going out.. he said he did.. and then he called me to talk about why he was acting different.. and he said his uncles were telling him to be single and have fun while hes still young.. and even tho he still likes me, he said he wants to see what its like being single again.. but only for like a week..his best friend doesnt want him breaking up with me cuz he knows how happy me and my boyfriend are, but yet he also is lonely cuz now he doest have anyone to go a meet girls with.. but anyway, im really confused at what my boyfriend is trying to tell me.. he even said its not cuz he wants to mess around with other girls.. and i trust him cuz he doesnt lie.. but does anyone understand why he wants to break up just for a little while, but still ACT like we havent broken up ((like in school, and we would still hang out outside of school))?? |
Heathergirl
19 years ago
He sounds a little confused, maybe you guys should get together and talk about you guys want to do... |
Jason
19 years ago
Hey Jessie!! I think that maybe he is afraid of commitment, because this is his first REAL girlfriend and he is either scared or not sure what to do right now. I guess letting him "break up" for a week would show him that he would much rather be with you? But then i dont get why he still wants to act like a couple during this week of the "break up"? Its so confusing! What exactly does he want out of this experience? If it's to feel single again...i'm pretty sure he wont feel that if he wants to act like a couple during that week. So confusing!! Anyways i hope this helped a little bit!!!! Good luck!! |