Still Hurting </3

Ok. I was with a guy for a year and 3 months and he broke up with me the day after Christmas. I was happy and I couldn't wait to talk to him. Boy was I in for a surprise. He dumped me over IM. I was devastated. I told my friends and tehy were just like "I told you so". I don't tell them how hurt I am anymore... I'm so tired of hearing that. But anyway... I hurt so badly. When I see him I can't help but turn my head and hold back tears. We flirt all the time because we decided to be friends. We flirt contantly and I enjoy it. Yesterday we both stayed after and I had been in the library crying because I can't let go for some reason. I've tried and I haven't done a very good job. But I was flirting with him and we gave each other a hug and he asked if I wanted a kiss too and I said maybe and we ended up kissing. But before that happened he had his forehead on mine and it seemed like he was going to kiss me. I went weak at the knees.... What do I do? I still love him... He said he broke up with me because of stuff going on in his house and his job and he was just really stressed out. But I was always there for him when he needed me. I'm still there for him. Please help me.

He is just using you and coming back for more because he knows you'll give it to him. Don't let him do this to you. Let him go, let yourself hurt, but get over it and you will be fine. Life does go on, and another boy does come along=]

I agree with everyone. You have to move on and stop flirting with him, completely. Of course your having difficultly moving on if your always hugging him and around him! Get away from him. I know your in love and it's hard but eventually you'll move on. I know this isn't what you want to hear, but it's the truth.

You need to stop even being friends with the guy his just using you for whatever he wants you to and it's hurting you yes getting him out of your life on any relationship/friendship level will hurt but it will hurt a lot less than down the track when he hurts you more. You may think he cares but no one who cares eaves someone over i.m. i know this is harsh but it's what needs to be said. His no good for you there's plenty more guys out there who will treat you right and love you for you!

What everyone else said lol

Ok. Any other suggestions on how? I forgot to say that we don't see much of each other. But when we do... it all goes down hill. I know I'm a door mat... I always have been. I'm trying to change that.

Well, seems that you're really hurt and so deeply in love.. but sometimes you should let go.. why to care about someone who doesn't share you the feeling.. I was in such a situation, but finally I let go and I'm now with a new so much better love.. just go on..

BAbes..... Move on!!! please!

AM a guy, and am sorry to say, but ive acted jus like him!

We keep you around for wen we get lonly! he he wanted to really be with you, he wouldnt ov broken up with you (ova IM... Lowwwwww), he playin with you head baby girl!

I know its hard to get ova sum1 but he will be a distant mermory soon! soo dont go thru dis heartache and enjoy your OWN life!

Hope you will :)