How often should I give my girlfriend time to breathe?

  • BlackIris
    15 years ago

    Aaaaaaaaaa

  • BlackIris
    15 years ago

    Actually I do think a lot :(
    I remember a time when I saw her talking to a friend (he was a guy), and I didn't want to interrupt so I didn't come to talk to her.. she asked me why did I do that? she thought that there was something wrong!
    I just don't know, should I show her how much I care everyday?
    there's another thing, we went out 2 weeks ago, we had lunch and talked for 5 hours, time passed so quickly, I told her that I it passed like a minute, and she told me that she had so much fun.. when is the right time to ask her out again?
    And I also need some gift ideas!
    Thanx for your replies, I appreciate it..

  • BlackIris
    15 years ago

    Thanx dude.. I appreciate it.. i already brought her a necklace and a perfume, she liked the necklace so much :)
    Thanx again

  • Jaime
    15 years ago

    You should give her as much space as she needs. Some girls don't mind being smothered, and some like to be left alone sometimes. It's all based on what she wants.

    Just remember if you get annoying, she'll only be able to take so much of it.

  • XxBAYBiiGiRLxX
    15 years ago

    I think if she wanted brething space she would tell you and plus being together means together not only here and there.. but i know from past that you can only stay away from your partner for so long and then you miss them!

  • Beauty In The Breaking
    15 years ago

    *smiles a bit* Wanting to spend every minute with her that you can is not a bad thing I promise you, my boyfriend is a lot like you in that sense and I love that he wants to spend so much time with me :)

    If she wants or needs a little space she'll tell you, if you try to give her to much space when she doesn't feel the need for it she might start thinking that you don't like her as much as you do so don't worry lol

    And you can never show her to much affection hun lol Most girls love being shown that their loved and cherished, can't tell us to much lol

  • BlackIris
    15 years ago

    Well, 1st thanx 4 ur msg..
    actually it's a little bit complicated, or maybe I'm complicating things! I don't know..
    I don't know if I can call her my girlfriend even!
    She hasn't told me that she loves me too yet! but everything that she does tells me so!
    These are some of the things she does, please tell me, am I misunderstanding things?!!

    We chat nearly everyday.. she asked me once to define love.. she asked me many times why I chose her? I told her that she's so beautiful and all the special things about her.. she asked me if she's beautiful and let me compare her to others and I told her that nothing compares to her..

    I send her love songs and she loves them, she told me once that she misses my songs..

    I brought her a necklace, she wore it and told me that she was afraid that I didn't notice..

    When she feels bad she comes to me and when she needs anything she asks me..

    She felt sad once and I told her that nothing should let her down because she's above everything and she told me "that's why I love you"!

    She confides in me, tells me everything..
    She tells me that I'm so close to her.. she tells me that she misses me.. I tell her that I miss her too..

    I made her some videos and edited some of her photos, I made her some songs collections and I wrote her a poem.. she told me that she liked them a lot..

    She told me that I'm too good to be true..

    And when we are together I can see it in her eyes..
    She knows that I want to be with her for all the time..

    So many things tell me that she likes me or loves me too..

    The problem is that we're from different religions, so it's like we can't make forever!! :(
    When I told her that I love her, she told me that I'm her closest friends and we're not meant to be because we're from different religions..
    That let me down so I changed a little and she asked me why did I change and that she missed the old me!

    I didn't change and I kept telling her that she's the closest to my heart.. nothing has changed.. the songs, the way we talk, chatting.. she still asks me if she's beautiful.. she still tells me that she misses me.. everything is great but she hasn't told me that she loves me though I feel it..

    Is she afraid to fall in love? does she love me too but she doesn't wanna tell me? I don't know!

    I feel down so often because I miss her a lot, and I want her to know how much I do live her.. i feel down cause we're never meant to be together but I can't fight this feeling, she's my everything..
    There will come a time when she leaves!! I cried last night because of this!
    I don't wanna let her go,what should I do?!!
    I wish she can see me, I wish she can see how I spend my days and nights thinking of her..
    I've become like a crazy..all what I think about is her.. I always want to be with her..
    I've managed not to tell her every what I feel cause I don't wanna put her under pressure but I wish she knows how I'm deeply falling...

    I'm afraid to lose her because of what I do.. I'm afraid that if I showed her how much I care and what makes me feel down, she would leave!

    It's just complicated!

    I admit that I'm a jealous guy! maybe that's a bad thing! I want her mine for all the time..

    Last month we went out together and we had so much fun, I told her so and she told me that she had a lot of fun too..
    I asked her two days ago to meet but she said sorry cause she doesn't feel like going out these days!!
    That made me feel so sad, is it ok to tell me so?!

    She doesn't reply to all my messages too.. i don't know, should she reply to every message I send?!

    Last time, she was the one who wanted to hang out! what's happening..is she really not in the mood or am I losing her?!

    This is driving me crazy!

  • Wasted Fake Smiles
    15 years ago

    I agree with britt...thats kind of creepy. i used to be semi-similar, though not to that extreme, and i was broken up with time after time and was called clingy and desperate. you need to just chill out and realize if you dont talk to her constantly, nothing bad is going to happen. your scaring her away...