Confidence

  • LittleMissReality
    15 years ago

    So I really like this guy, but the thing is I always run out of what to say around him or get really nervous. Pathetic I know being a senior in highschool, but I think all those years of guys making fun of me are catching up on me. What are some tips for getting self confidence around him. When I didn't like him it was fine but now it's hard, and his friend knows and I'm alwasy freaking out that he'll find out and won't like me and stop talking to me which is my biggest fear!!

    I know Pathetic but I just would really like this to work out and somethign to happen with him :)

  • Wasted Fake Smiles
    15 years ago

    Before you can have confidence around him, you need confidence always...stop calling yourself pathetic. its not pathetic. everyone runs out of things to say. my biggest tip that i personally use is to think of what you could talk about before you even start to talk with him. and when you run through all the things you had in your head, you leave while the conversation was good...

  • Beautiful Chaos
    15 years ago

    You're the only one who can find your confidence, it feels so cliche, but just be yourself, if that's not good enough, they're not good enough. He is a person just like you, he has interests, likes, dislikes, dreams, hopes, fears, talk about life, find out what you have in common.

  • LittleMissReality
    15 years ago

    Thanks :) Even though that will be hard for me I'll do it