Need a little help with a girl..

Well, I recently started liking a girl I never thought I'd like since she's.. well, a bit of a tomboi, a little 'emo' and yeah.

She likes me, but she's been pushing me away in the past couple of days. She doesn't want a relationship right away because of all this stuff going on in her life, so I'm ok to let it go until she's ready, but honestly I don't know if she'll still have feelings when she is.

She doesn't want my help, my advice, or anything. We were getting along great, then all of the sudden.. she seems so distant.

What can I do? Wait it out and see what happens? I just need some advice from someone besides myself..

Thanks....

How many of us actually mean it when we say "I'm not into relationships now because I'm dealing with somethings"?

It doesn't sound like she's very interested.

Someone with a positive view on relationships would welcome the beginning of a new relationship as a source of revitalizing energy to "deal with things" She's doubting and she's got her reasons. Find out the reasons, if you can, and see if you can do anything productive about it. It does boil down to respecting her choice though, so let go of hopes of a relationship, if you must, and try to be her friend (if that's what she wants).

Simply ask her and understand her situation or what is really happening.

Girls... OMG I hate girls, they're so complicated and annoying... I'm a girl, but I hate how other girls behave sometimes

Oh well let's see....

She's a tomboi and emo-ish... I think that means she's kind of a tough, though sensitive girl, trying to deal with things on her own. She doesn't want your help or your advice.

I would say: Just be there for her. Be her friend, hang out with her, take her out as a friend, take her mind off the negative things that are going on in her life. Tell her you'll be there if she needs you and that you respect her wish to be left alone in this, but that if she's really in trouble, you'll always help her out. Girls are sometimes afraid to ask for help.

You can also try the risky way... And just randomly talk to her... and then straight away ask her what her problems are and just try to help her. I don't know... find her weak spots and break into her life to help her. Sometimes it can be really nice, but sometimes girls hate it. Like I said: it's risky.

Good luck

xx