Why can't I?

  • Sapphire
    15 years ago

    I've never had a boyfriend, and am always afraid to ask the guys I like out. I'm not ugly, it's just that i'm afraid of getting rejected and things getting awkward. I have many guy friends, so it isn't that i'm not outgoing, only when it comes to the love aspect. Any advice on how to become more outgoing love wise?

  • Beautiful Chaos
    15 years ago

    "i'm afraid of getting rejected"

    Everyone gets rejected, it's just part of the game. If you spend all of your time thinking about the negative things that can happen, nothing good gets the chance to happen. Just let down your guard and put yourself out there, give it a shot.

  • Sapphire
    15 years ago

    Thanks I'll definitely try more

  • charley
    15 years ago

    Your just like me im always afraid to ask the guy but i think its cuz i was in an abusive relationship. you just got to know one thing everyone gets rejected but you just have to move on from that and learn from it. just flirt around there has to be some guy that really likes you. talk to you guy friends and see what they like in a girl. what i do is i just be myself and i dont try to act fake. i flirt and have fun if you have there message txt them thats how me and my new guy got into our realtionship