=/ i just need some advice.

I think i'm more in love with my boyfriend's brother than i am with my boyfriend. I know i love my boyfriend and i love his brother. But his brother is always there for me and he's sweet and when i hurt myself he gets upset yeah but he always shows up at my house and just hangouts with me. My boyfriend however gets all mad and doesn't talk to me for awhile and he's sweet and yes i like him a lot. and i love hanging out with him. but there are times when he just focuses on sex and i'd rather he be sweet like his brother. there are things i like about both of them and i don't know whether it's fair or not...?

So far, what I have concluded, if you THINK you're "in love"; if you aren't sure or are second guessing yourself, you obviously aren't. If you were you would KNOW; there would be no doubt & the feelings would be stronger.

Besides... They're brothers; always have been before they met you & always will be even after you're gone. Blood is thicker than water; their relationship with each other is more close than it is with you. For their sake; for their relationship, you should just let them both go.

I met a girl once like you. Whenever she'd be dating a guy & met someone else who was "nice to her" (in her own words), she'd dump the other one for them. Then, again, when her ex she just dumped was "nice to her" she dumped the one she dumped him for too to get back with him. Then again, and again, and again... Hmm, this situation sounding familiar? 'Cause it sure as hell sounds a lot like yours.

Have you told your bf this?

"here are times when he just focuses on sex and I'd rather he be sweet"

Personally I would say that his brother is off limits, nothing good can come from dividing them, which is what you would be doing, it already seems you are having a mental affair. Your bf obviously has an inkling that his brother likes you or it would not bother him.

"then they both realized that blood is thicker than even her heart and they both shook hands and left her standing there...pitiful and ....alone"

^ That's something that these two brothers should do as well, provided that they find out.