I dont know why i kissed him, i barely know him...[help me]

  • ADreamToMyNightmare
    15 years ago

    So on friday i ditched school [last day of the semester so it was no biggie] and i went over my friends house...he's a guy i barely met on myspace(i know what youre thinking....i know him because he's one of my sister's friend's brother...he's my sister's friend as well). he came to my house and picked me up about 11 in the morning. we drove back to his house and we just hung out. first he played his drums for a bit. it was fun just listening to him play...then i asked about his bass and he insisted on showing me..he said it was in his room, so we then kicked it in his room. he turned on the tv and we layed in his bed. it was cold that day so he scooched in and he began hugging me. then he pulled the covers over both of us and we cuddled for a while. then he just started to get closer and i had told him that i couldnt feel my lip so he began "testing" it so he bit my lip a couple times...then we just started kissing. after a bit we just cuddled and he began tickling me and we kissed some more.. and then his friend called and reminded him that they had band practice...so then i insisted that we leave..he drove me back home and well when i said goodbye gave him a hug and told him to have fun at practice...and that was it..

    now im questioning what he thinks about me..i mean this was the first time i ever actually hung out with him....the only time we talked was on myspace and on the phone....so right now i have no idea whether or not he likes me. i have no idea what he thinks about me.. im so confused. what should i do?
    i havent talked to him since friday. and well i dont know? whats the best way to go on about this??

  • ADreamToMyNightmare
    15 years ago

    You dont have to read the whole thing...just the second part....
    i would really appreciate any honest opinions and advice....thank you very much...and even if you dont know how to help you can ask me for advice...im very honest :)

  • Teria
    15 years ago

    First off:

    "friday i ditched school [last day of the semester so it was no biggie]"

    PLEASE! Ditching school any day is a biggie. A lot of times when someone starts they don't stop. And, no biggie days add up to more days and those days add up to no parent/doctor slip days. Then those days add up to court days which add up to juvey/jail days. Then that adds up to bad records.

    And, second off. You've met him once. Don't worry about him liking you a whole bunch and you liking him a whole bunch. Give him a call in a few days or wait for him to call you. If not oh well, find someone new. If so go on a few more dates and see if the connection you felt goes past the first 'day fling' and if he feels it back.

    Be careful getting under covers though. It leads to things other than kissing and stuff. And, you don't want him to think you're easy. Most likely that's all you'll be to him there on after

  • ADreamToMyNightmare
    15 years ago

    True...its a biggie...but i dont do this often.

    and about the easy part i only went as far as the kiss. and thats what i dont want him thinking.
    and well yeah... i bet it does lead to other things and i am not looking for any of that. i refused to do any other things, proving my point that im not easy.

    and thanks very much for the advice!
    it helps a great deal just to hear something back!

  • Beautiful Chaos
    15 years ago

    We always skipped last day of the semester lol You don't really do much, same with the last day before holidays lol

    Anyway I don't think you have anything to freak out about, but the only one who can say whether or not he likes you is him. Call him, see if he wants to hang out again if you like him, it is the only way to know anything.

  • ChaoticallyMe
    15 years ago

    Hmm...you focus on too much and little little.

    Too many small details..and too little of what's important.

    Small details: brother of a friend who's a friend of your sister who's a friend of the brother as well (ok, so I notice small things too :P) Skip the minor stuff in between and just say a friend of your sister. This is what you need to do with him as well. Sure, take in the details if it helps you realize more of the relations..but be definitive about where you stand
    which leads me to the important stuff: Where do you stand?? You have to figure out where you want to stand before you simply comply with what he offers (be it the "drummer gets you into his bed" charm or something more). It doesn't sound like grounds of solid romance (and he seems too used to relationships as such), but hey, maybe that's what works..and it can be a starting point.

    Good luck