He gets told he can do better!

  • XxBAYBiiGiRLxX
    15 years ago

    I have been with my boyfriend for 21 days now... I love him with all my heart but all his friends say he can do better then me....
    I believe that he can but he loves me....it hurts me alot.... He gets anoyed with his friends saying it because they don't know me... he says not to take any notice because he loves me and no1 can change that...

    Should I be worried about him listening to his friends or not??

  • XxBAYBiiGiRLxX
    15 years ago

    Thank-you very much! there is this girl who he has been talking to for a while and she moved to Australia for him I get jelous and he knows when i'm upset with him bout talkin to her.... Anyone kno what i can do??

  • XxBAYBiiGiRLxX
    15 years ago

    They have known each other for a while but he just says i love you.... she's really atractive but he wants to go and meet her and he said i could go with him.... i just worry wat he tlks to her about cos she like flirts with him and stuff cos i sat there and read wat she was aying

  • Beautiful Chaos
    15 years ago

    "all his friends say he can do better then me....
    I believe that he can"

    The bigger problem I see is you believe he can do better too.

  • Captivat3d
    15 years ago

    You need to work on your confidence level. You think he can do better than you? If you think that way then he probably thinks that way too. Have more confidence and trust him.

  • Misunderstood Misery
    15 years ago

    You've only been with the guy for 21 days and you're saying that you love him? Um... okay?

  • XxBAYBiiGiRLxX
    15 years ago

    Umm I new him way before we actually got together and i loved him long before we got together, thanks to all the people that gave positive advice thank you much apreciated xox!

  • Elizabeth
    15 years ago

    I agree with Beautiful Chaos... The only problem that there is pertaining to your situation is the fact that YOU believe he can do better; that you believe his friends. First of all, it doesn't matter what his friends think. Second, if you think that way too then why are you with him even at all? It sounds like you need to start thinking for yourself & actually sounds like you're not ready for a relationship.

  • Misunderstood Misery
    15 years ago

    Oh. Okay. Sorry about the negativity. The way you wrote it made it sound a little weird. There are alot of people on here who, at the very beginning of a relationship, say that they love that person. x.x Again, sorry about that.

    ^^And I agree with everything TPAM said.

    You gotta have confidence in yourself.

  • ChaoticallyMe
    15 years ago

    Always Britt to knock some sense into them.
    People get so blind in relationships.
    We're too close to see the problem.
    When you're focused on kissing, you can't see the lips (hopefully haha).