Idk wat to do anymore

Everyone tells me to move on but its so hard...heres my story

i was in love once, it was a love so strong that it was sufficating. i will always love nick but things got way out of hand. our relationship changed after we started sleeping together. everything we did or talked about was revolved around sex. and than he broke up with me but we got back together but i realized that our relationship was different and i didn't like it. so i left him. i have a new boyfriend nd he's got a new girlfriend. he got really pissed off and stopped talking to me. but i miss him so much. when i'm brett my minds like "nick who?" but when i'm not nick is always on my mind. i want nick back but i don't want to lose brett. but nick also wants nothing to do with me. its all a very complicated situation, but at the same time its not...

He wants nothing to do with you & you are both with other people, so no it is not complicated, obviously for him it is over. It is really not fair to your current bf, that you want your ex back, you obviously have some things to work out. The first step to moving on is accepting it is over, which you have not.

I really think that you miss the idea of being with Nick. Like, how it was in the beginning, not how it actually was.

It's like the forbidden fruit and you always want what you can't have.

To be honest, I think your best bet is to break up with Brett as you'll end up hurting hijm and just be alone until you get over your ex.

Ok well they way i see it, it's just the case of the ex

You couldn't let go of the things/moments that you have had with nick.

You state that after having sex with nick, all things seems to change. The way i see is that nick is a player luring girls to sex and leave them wanting more even though the both of u have broke up.U see players are very gd in doin that. They have the ability to leave a lasting impression.

Let take a look at some of the points here:

-Nick already has got a new gf
-U already have a new bf
-Ur relationship with nick only revovles around sex
(u need to think about ur future with him; marriage kids and financial backings)
-U already got back with nick after the 1st break up
and it didn't work out( wats the possibility that it's goin to work out the 2nd attempt? things gonna be different? well that's where u thought wrong)

In my opinion u juz miss ur old days with nick aka ur ex. It's normal for girls to miss their ex after a while.

So my suggestion to u is not to got back to nick coz as i analyze he's a probably a player

As for brett well the way i see , he's just a person whom u find randomly to move on. (damn i pity that guy).

So i suggest put urself under a dating mode for awhile. Date more guys and find which one suits u better and narrow down to the 1 who is able to sweep u off ur feet (hence make u totally forget about nick)

You obviously haven't accepted the fact that it's officially over with you and Nick. You shouldn't have gone out with Brett when you haven't even resolved your feelings for Nick. I think you should be single for awhile and just think things through. Figure out what you want.