How do you know if you love someone?

  • DeludedHonesty
    19 years ago

    If you love someone you don't mind their flaws. You know their strengths and weaknesses which makes you love them all the more. You need them and you don't know what you would do without them. I hope that helped.

  • amber
    19 years ago

    would you give your life to save theirs?IF YOU CAN HONESTLY SAY YES THEN ITS TRUE LOVE!

  • *~*Soldier Lover*~*
    19 years ago

    the way you know you love someone, is when you are completly sure you would do ANYTHING for them or to be with them. And no matter what, you just want them to be happy, even if it hurts you.

  • Chris Engle
    19 years ago

    I believe that love can be indicated by any of the afforementioned ways; willingness to give up your life for them, willingness to do anything for them or to be with them, or any of the other mentioned ways. Personally i knew it when i was willing to give up the girl i loved... (more than anything...) and not only let her go... but let her go to my best friend... have his child (its due on valentines day) and get engaged to him... hell even go as far to be their best man when the time comes.. even though im going to hate every second of it... in my situation i know i love her because i was willing to give her up, do everything i could to help her be with my best friend (because for one thing, he really likes her... she likes him... and for another, hes probably a better choice than myself) because shes better off... and probably will be happier in the long run, with him..

    to put it blunt, i believe that you know you're in love with someone when you are willing to have an ultimate sacrifice of some sort for them.. whether it be giving your life for them, or giving up everything in life for them, or merely knowing you cant go on without them, and would be willing to give up life to be with them if they died... (little durastic, but it gets my point across)

    honestly, i believe if you are truely in love with someone... it wont take you like to see that you are. there wont be any big neon sign saying you are, you'll just know it.

    well, there's my opinion... hope it helps.

    ~chris

  • Heathergirl
    19 years ago

    you just know!!!

  • K~HO
    19 years ago

    you want him with you all the time.. the scariest thing is the thought of losing them.. you go to bed wanting his arms around you and you wake up wanting him next to you... somehow everything just reminds you of him.. you don't focus on any other guy.. the world revolves around him and everything else fades away when he is around