Confused

  • BreakMyWingsAndRun
    15 years ago

    Hey im amber. im 15 and me and my boyfriend have been going out for 7 months now. and i love him so much. but here latley its been not so good. we fuss about all of the stupid little things and they end up being huge problems. we have talked about this so many times and tried not to but that only lasted about 2 days.
    on the other hand. i have this really good guy friend. and hes reallly liked me for about 4 years now. ive tried to tell him to get a girlfriend and be happy, but all he says is that hes only happy if im happy even if it means im not with him. and he makes me really happy when im talking to him or something. and he just tells me how much he likes me and stuff. and he asks how me and my current boyfriend are doing everyday and ill say good and he just says thats good, atleast you're happy with it. but i am so confused. i think im starting to like him but im afraid to i guess you could say. he makes me really happy and i know that he wouldnt do me wrong or anything(not that my current boyfriend has done me wrong) but if i just think of not being with my current boyfriend makes me want to cry. i cant stand the thought of him being with someone besides me. but if i think of the other guy with another girl it dont really bother me that much. im not sure if i like the other guy as more than a friend or as a really good guy friend. i know this isnt anyone elses problem to take care of or worry about, but if you take the time to read this and try to help me figure out whats goin on i really appreciate it! thanks.

  • Milton
    15 years ago

    The other guys sounds like a nice guy. but it's not really a good thing for him to always be telling you how much he likes you. okay, it might sound nice. but he was never with you before and was always a friend. he really shouldn't be trying to get with you when you're with someone else.

    just be friends with the second guy. stay with the boyfriend you have now. talk to him about the fights you have and what you both can do to help stop them and feel better. don't let someone else complicate things. if you're happy, stay happy. ^_^

  • Kenny
    15 years ago

    Milton said it all. . as long as you still love your present boyfriend than your friend it's obvious whom you're inlove

  • Brittney
    15 years ago

    Wow. currently i went through a similar situation with my current boyfriend. we were having little arguments and we just weren't quite as happy as we were before and then you have the 'best guy friend' that has liked you for years. of course he is going to talk sweet to you and he is going to make you happy. thats what friends are for. It's really not that great of a thing considering that you and your boyfriend are arguing though because you start to 'like' him because he is being nice to you. he is making you happy in a time where all you do is argue. of course your going to feel attracted to him. everyone always wants someone to put a smile on their face and make them happy. this can in turn cause even more problems for you and your current boyfriend though. you need to think about what you really want and make sure that your not just starting to like your guy friend because because he is being nice to you and what not.
    Not to mention if you were to break up with your current boyfriend and things not working out with your guy friend your friendship would probably never be the same!