What would you do if all of dem hates you?

  • March Azel
    15 years ago

    ...hahaha here i go again^^
    well well
    i have dis new boyfriend.. and he is actually da best guy for me.. he is nice cute and he loves me very much.. everything was perfect until i heard that his family doesnt like me coz dey love most was his past Gf before me.. i dunno why coz dey have just seen my picture but never met me personally...how could dey hate me... well its a firstym though coz my past bf before him, his family were very much supportive and understanding ... its not dat im comparing but what im trying to say is.. im not used to it being hated by your bf brother or sister.. it feels bad.. lol...

  • Sherry Lynn
    15 years ago

    Huh? Who can fully understand a thing? Da talk lik this is 4 da birds. u no

  • Elizabeth
    15 years ago

    ^ 4 rlz!

    :)

  • Aveena
    15 years ago

    Yeah please speak properly ... maybe we can help you out then
    like reall what does ".. hayzt..." mean ?

    the answer to your question is to ignore them.. it's up to your bf and what he feels he wants to do. I think. But still.

  • Elizabeth
    15 years ago

    Just finished trying to pronounce "hayzt" & I've concluded that it, possibly, means "hate it".

  • Aveena
    15 years ago

    Yeah maybe in what she's trying to say.
    I tried I got "hey zit" lol =D

  • Captivat3d
    15 years ago

    Who cares what other people think! Like you said, they haven't even met you yet so they could possibly like you when they finally meet you but even if they still hated you, who cares. He shouldn't care and you shouldn't care. What matters is that you two are together and happy :P

  • AnCi
    15 years ago

    I agree with some of the other comments.. Ignore them, don't let them decide your life.. If you love this boy you should be with him no matter what anyone else says!

  • Casey
    15 years ago

    Whatever you do... don't write them a letter.

  • Kenny
    15 years ago

    "hayzt", "haysz" whatever that sounds like this means a deep *sigh*

  • Kuro
    15 years ago

    They probably just liked his ex so much that they still need time to get to know you. it's not so much that they hate you, but they want him to be with his ex.

    they dont know you yet, so it cant be personal

  • Wasted Fake Smiles
    15 years ago

    "Whatever you do... don't write them a letter."

    ^ lol that made me laugh so hard, and yet it is oh so true.

    and meet them, then complain about them not liking you. they aren't the ones you are dating, if your boyfriend likes you, that's what matters...

  • Beauty In The Breaking
    15 years ago

    Hhummm...I've always found it hard when the person I was datings parents hated/disliked me, its very annoying and frustrating to say the least, especially when they haven't met you yet lol But like people said, if you love each other then don't let it get in the way. Just be nice to them and polite and treat them with respect anyway when you meet them and don't talk bad about them behind their backs either so you have to be nice to them whether their there or not lol They'll come around and you'll charm their socks off. Give them some time to get used to you.

  • Its a love story
    15 years ago

    Just ignore them. as long as you are happy then that is all that matters

  • sian
    15 years ago

    Ask to meet them before you start to worry too much. Maybe they will change their mind s over time. After all they probably want to see their son happy and if you make him happy then Im sure they will come round. best of luck. Sian. xx

  • Fluffy
    15 years ago

    I think she's saying his family don't like her.

  • AngelicDecadence
    15 years ago

    I think i can translate if you guys still haven't gotten it lol XD :
    "I have this new boyfriend.. and hes actually the best guy for me.. hes nice, cute, and he loves me very much.. everything was perfect until i heard that his family doesn't like me because they love his past girlfriend before me.. i dont know why because they have only seen my picture and have never met me personally...how could they hate me... well its a first though because my past boyfriend before him, his family were very supportive and understanding ... its not that im comparing but what im trying to say is.. im not used to it, being hated by your boyfriends brother or sister.. it feels bad.. hayzt..."
    Err... yeah the only one im stuck on is the "hayzt" >.<

    My advice, talk to your boyfriend, ask to meet his family, and ask them (POLITELY) to give you a chance. I doubt they really hate you, but then i'd ask them to name their reasons for disliking you, plead you're case, and see where it gets you. (though i know you shouldn't have to do any of this, maybe you should just play their game and get it over with, its always better to be on the boyfriends familys good side)

  • Elizabeth
    15 years ago

    "I think i can translate if you guys still haven't gotten it lol XD :
    'I have this new boyfriend.. and hes actually the best guy for me.. hes nice, cute, and he loves me very much.. everything was perfect until i heard that his family doesn't like me because they love his past girlfriend before me.. i dont know why because they have only seen my picture and have never met me personally...how could they hate me... well its a first though because my past boyfriend before him, his family were very supportive and understanding ... its not that im comparing but what im trying to say is.. im not used to it, being hated by your boyfriends brother or sister.. it feels bad.. hayzt...' "

    ^ Wow... Are you serious? You actually went through all the trouble to "translate"? You fluent on the subject? That's sad.

    Sorry if I sound like a "witch" with a capital B, I just find that hilarious.

  • Fluffy
    15 years ago

    'ha ha, classic, guess what, your English teacher hates you as well'

    I thought of that before you Blobby, but I didn't think I'd get away with it quite as easily as you do :)

  • March Azel
    15 years ago

    Hahayzt= its a sigh:D sorry for the trouble reading it;))